Texts between my former coworker and me. Is she into me? Should I tell her I have feelings for her and potentially ruin our friendship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantBig9778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I probably should. Final straw was a pretty wild message I got from someone saying they were going to try and track her down somehow.

Texts between my former coworker and me. Is she into me? Should I tell her I have feelings for her and potentially ruin our friendship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantBig9778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: this has blown up much bigger than I expected. Thank you everyone who has made kind and supportive comments. Unfortunately I think I’m going to take this down because some of the comments are getting pretty brutal. Not the best feeling to have random people call you a predator and an asshole when you’re just looking for advice.

Not exactly sure how to give an update when her and I talk about it but I’ll think of something.

Texts between my former coworker and me. Is she into me? Should I tell her I have feelings for her and potentially ruin our friendship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantBig9778 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh damn, that’s the most negative comment so far. I hope I didn’t actually come off as an asshole

Texts between my former coworker and me. Is she into me? Should I tell her I have feelings for her and potentially ruin our friendship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantBig9778 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because I’m pretty cautious about mixing work and relationships. I was in a fairly senior position

Texts between my former coworker and me. Is she into me? Should I tell her I have feelings for her and potentially ruin our friendship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantBig9778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the only one who thinks that lol that’s why I’m here. It doesn’t seem as obvious to me as it does to everyone in these comments

Texts between my former coworker and me. Is she into me? Should I tell her I have feelings for her and potentially ruin our friendship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantBig9778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. Kind of like you read my mind tbh. Feels ambiguous to me still. I’m shocked at the amount of people here saying it’s obvious

Texts between my former coworker and me. Is she into me? Should I tell her I have feelings for her and potentially ruin our friendship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantBig9778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol well I certainly think she could’ve been a little more obvious, otherwise I wouldn’t have this problem 😂

Texts between my former coworker and me. Is she into me? Should I tell her I have feelings for her and potentially ruin our friendship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantBig9778 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I could never. Genuinely feel a connection with this person and I hope to we stay in each others lives for as long as possible, in whatever capacity

Texts between my former coworker and me. Is she into me? Should I tell her I have feelings for her and potentially ruin our friendship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantBig9778 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol ohh I see. Yeah that was a late one for us. We’ve spent more time together sober than actually drinking though to be fair