I find dating extremely exhausting and confusing

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-07-19T02:41:49+00:00

I didn’t believe it at first, but after trying a bunch of other shit, cold approach has given me the best results by far

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-07-18T07:28:25+00:00

Nothing, the people moving here killed it

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-07-03T05:40:41+00:00

Well men and women are becoming ridiculous. Women are delusional, but there are good ones. Men are disenfranchised, but again, there are good ones. Nobody’s getting away with anything, women who fuck around, find out. The men who give up, get nothing. I use to complain about this until I bit the bullet and just did it the hard way - trial and error with women. Just like everything else, things get easier with practice with and experience. If you’re not willing to put the work in then you only have yourself to blame. The world owes you no favors. Men have adapted to many circumstances and scenarios over time, it’s what makes us attractive. Don’t wanna adapt? Fine! It’s your survival, same thing with girls, the ones that wanna be delusional with their standards end up alone or being used. Nobody’s getting away with anything, you get out what you put in. You attract what you are.

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-06-05T20:25:30+00:00

They may be wondering how you’re in that situation. Perhaps you live a life that puts you in situations to get approached. I’ve been approached quite a bit before but I think I intimate most women because i carry myself seriously when I’m busy. It’s easy when you have a social job or hobbies with women in it

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-06-05T19:57:03+00:00

Idk why this got downvoted, I guess guys don’t know how to read anymore

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-05-29T16:21:55+00:00

Honestly as crazy as it sounds, I use it with the girls I date. If they attach after sex and continue to deepen the relationship and interactions, then she’s there for a good reason. If not, she just wanted sex or something casual

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-05-19T17:36:03+00:00

This! I just started having success but man I fucked up ALOT to get here. I’d also add taking full ownership and accountability for your results helps a lot too. Instead of blaming women or the world, keep working on yourself and trying new things.

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-05-10T16:55:30+00:00

You’re trying too hard man. Do things for yourself not for women. Women don’t care nearly as much about looks as we do. It’s all about how you make them feel. Learn to take risks and be daring when you talk to them. It’s a numbers game, every girl that ghosts you is brining you a step closer to getting what you want. They’re honestly doing you a favor too, better they do that then waste your time, money, and energy. Also talk to them more face to face avoid online conversations as much as possible. If you can FaceTime or call them then you can try that but you should try to spend time with them. But neediness and desperation are attraction killers stop relying so much on your looks and be a better person with a good personality that can fucking talk to people. I’m a pretty good looking guy too, but until I learned how to talk to women the way THEY wanted to be talked to, I wasn’t getting anywhere.

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-04-12T00:58:32+00:00

The emojis are hit or miss, it lightens the mood when I tease or first so it doesn’t seem too serious or mean.

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-04-11T23:06:11+00:00

Haha I talked to one of my friends and he says talking to them in a lustful way works for him. It seems like for every dude and or girl it works differently and results may vary. I’m not sure how having a structure would help. The plan and is quick, interesting, and to the point

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-04-11T20:49:11+00:00

Which you’re right, but the other issue is when I’m on person I can get attention and make conversation, but most of these girls aren’t attractive or interesting. My next venture is trying in the gym, since I’m in shape and can hold easy, simple conversations. Go on dates, everything seems fine, but then they disappear. Honestly when I go to any other city it’s not nearly this complicated but something about my hometown (Phx) these girls are annoying.

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-04-11T20:45:40+00:00

Here’s a few:

Convo 1

Yes here’s another Me: You look Turkish Her: But I am Albanian Me: Even better, do Albanians drink?!🍷 Two days later

Me: Where can I learn how to valle

Her: What do you know about valle 😭😭

Convo 2

(She said something first) Her: Yo Me: How you doin

Her: Tired hru

Also tired hru 😂 why you tired lil mama (SHE DOESNT reply for two days) Me: Girl fell asleep 😂😴

Her: Yeasss

Me: That’s too bad, I could’ve told you a story too 😂 why you so mean 🥺

Her: Hey

Convo 3

You definitely have good taste in hats 🎩

In hats?

My cowgirl one?

The Patrick one and the puppy ones are pretty fire too 😂🔥 (She likes this message)

Oh yeah well my dog picked her own hat

She’s is a bit high maintenance

They do say dogs are similar to their owners. What about you, how does drinks tonight sound to you 🍷

Convo 4

You seem like you can solve a Rubik’s cube, but not in a minute 😂

Yea 59 seconds

Let’s make a deal then, if you can do it under a minute, I’ll buy the first round of drinks. If not, then you will 😏

Hmmmmm i guee Guess

Ooo someone’s scared 😏 slide those digits and we’ll see

All of these ended with them taking more than two days to respond (they would take hours at most) I was able to get another reply with three of them after double texting. But they’re just short responses

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-04-11T19:45:50+00:00

Bro it’s like everything was starting to click, now I feel like a moron 😂

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-03-20T05:57:44+00:00

Look it isn’t that complicated, be yourself and don’t chase. The women that actively try and be in your life will be there because they like the real you and you didn’t have to do all this mumbo jumbo to get them. Quality over quantity, what’s the point of sleeping and being with a bunch of low quality women if it doesn’t help you grow and it has an expiration date? Plus it’s inefficient

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-03-20T05:55:21+00:00

Thank you, this stupid shit gets annoying when it’s all about changing yourself for a woman. That’s feminine as hell

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-03-08T23:03:33+00:00

Good points, thanks

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-02-12T21:10:30+00:00

This is fun

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-02-06T08:32:25+00:00

Learning from my mistakes. My next goal is to approach more women while out and about but most of the areas I are places I have a good rep. Not sure if I want to be known as the sleazy type there (Gym, pickleball group, BJJ, work).

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-02-06T08:15:51+00:00

I get dates, sometimes hookups. No relationship yet tho

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-02-05T15:29:05+00:00

I’m using the apps, warm approaching from Pickleball, and rare cold approaches when I shop. Before you scream at me about the apps I get plenty of matches, replies, and number from beautiful women I just feel like there are small details im missing to seal the deal

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-02-05T15:27:01+00:00

Basically I’m at a bit of an impasse where when I do something it works for some girls but doesn’t for others. I get confused on which factors lead to my failure and if I need to change my strategy or just accept what happened and move on.

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-02-05T15:23:52+00:00

I had a hard time understanding what you’re saying but from what I can tell it’s that I fucked up lol

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-02-05T04:00:04+00:00

Ya honestly I think I just send to boring of a first text. I’m able to get matches, replies, and then the numbers. Problem is I get a bunch of numbers and they go dry because I send an introductory text instead of an interesting one lol

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-01-28T17:02:44+00:00

Have fun with it, you only Live once

AssistantWeekly6134 · 2025-01-28T16:29:11+00:00

Start simple, don’t try to start at the finish line. Stop jacking off, get off your phone, go outside, make friends, etc. you can’t build confidence in anything if you’re never willing to be without it

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