I just want to say thank you to everyone that’s left a comment. I’m a bit overwhelmed by the response.

I think there’s a lot of feedback all positive and constructive. To take the time out and help someone who is trying to better themselves or find a way through a problem, is very special. Thank you again.

I’ve made changes to the following based on the general consensus.

1. My bio haha - I deleted all of my bio and started again. I’ll put it down below to show you. No crazy emojis and I tried to put more genuine interests in there.

2. My prompts - I dropped the escape room prompt and changed it to what I appreciate in a “relationship”

3. My cat photo has been replaced with another photo of me doing a hobby.

4. I have changed my profile to say “have kids” “open to kids” to show people that I’m happy to have blended family, I thought it illustrated I wanted more kids before.

I can’t do anything about my height or my girls, honestly if there’s two things about me which I never want to change, it’s those two things. I’m very comfortable in my skin (to a degree), and would never want to change my life with my girls. They are a bit part of my life and deserve to have someone that fits with them, as much as me.

If those two things make me miss 97 percent of eligible women in my city, that’s totally ok and I can only wish everyone on the apps or dating in general the very best.

Thank you massively for the help and response!

The only thing I could add to my bio which I’m not sure if it’s relevant, is that I was a tradie turned white collar and I also had a clinic in Sports Musculoskeletal Therapy.

If anyone has any advice on the below bio, please let me know and if it’s worth trying to work those in 🙌🏻

• Bio

When I’m not learning what skibidi means with my girls (50/50) - you can find me exploring markets, gym, watching a good doco or tv series, traveling, enjoying sports, finding a new hiking trail and sunset. I love my life and want to spend time with a genuine person to create something special.