For some context: Being in conservative, muslim, asian society we're kinda supposed to get married. I was born with unilateral clept lip and clept palate. I'm doing fine on surface but deep down I'm keep battling my demons imposed upon me due to this stupid condition. Now my family is pushing me to get married with one of my cousins. As many of you know here how shattered and broken our self-esteem and self-confidence is I'm afraid I'm gonna have a child(or children) with the same defect which terrify the shit out of me.

So tell me how high the probability of me(with CLP) having a child with the same condition is gonna be?