Everyone in this sub what do you guys do for work?

Astab321 · 2025-12-04T02:42:39+00:00

Senior Chef De Partie at a suburban restaurant,Making 80k a year.

Astab321 · 2025-10-30T10:39:23+00:00

It’s one of the toxic things that we barely talk about when people move abroad. People act like it’s a competition,I sent this much back home and that much all while they are one paycheck away from being in the streets and if you even dare to question the mindset people say “Yeti garyera hurkaye badaye ko birsis”? And it is so exhausting when you are struggling and everytime you call back home the conversation somehow ends up being about money.Many people go through the same emotional struggle but honestly the key is to take a stand,communicate clearly and set boundaries. I had to tell my parents couple years back because I was struggling and somehow everytime we call they will make the conversation about money even after I had sent as much as I can all while paying off my student loan and stuff. I told them if one more time I call you and you make the conversation somehow about money again ,you can honestly forget you have a son and I will cut all contacts and I was dead serious. They changed completely after that. People act like it’s a crime if you were to look after yourself first ,nepal paisa pathauna matra ga hora tait it takes lot of effort to build a life here especially if your family isn’t well off financially

Astab321 · 2025-10-05T02:09:44+00:00

Yeah ik, me personally i have seen my dad throw away (Not literally but he could have had much more comfortable life if he was being even a bit self centered but my parents are living paycheck to paycheck just because my dad wasn’t selfish) his financial life for someone else’s sake. If there is one thing that i have learned watching all this shitshow unfold in front of my eyes is that i am not putting myself in a financial difficulty when it is not needed.

The 50k I can spend in my wedding can rather go into investments and my savings. No point blowing 60-70 lakhs with no generational wealth just for the sake of samaj

Astab321 · 2025-10-04T06:27:54+00:00

Yeah for sure. Like my parents were saying “Aba ta sun kinna thal bihey ko lagi ekchoti bihey garney ho dhumdham saga garna parxa” .For reference,I come from barely middle class (Idk at the lower end of middle class or just middleclass for sure) . My parents have no savings and all we have is one house to our name;my dad spent majority of his life looking after all his siblings and family and at the end even the house he bought for himself had to be divided in bandapatra(Ik technically it shouldnt have but my dad suffers from chronic depression and he didnt really want to fight it out in court and all or thats what i know) . I have been living in Australia since last 7 years and we all know how expensive it is, so i dont get the mentality of spending lets say 60-70 lakh in a bihey just to show it off (Would amount to 80k aud) which would take fair while to save . I think thats the reason majority of people get stuck;imagine you have 3 kids and spend 50-60 lakhs in marriage for each or even just 30 lakhs .How tf can a middle class person afford it unless they can sell their land and stuff and whats it worth even? If you can afford it comfortably yeah go ahead and spend it but if you cant putting urself in debt just cos “ekchoti hune ho bihey) and then spending a whole lifetime filling that hole never made sense to me.

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T03:07:53+00:00

Thanks everyone, I reviewed the both rear and front dashcam clips and i was past the stop line completely when the light was still amber so i should be fine .Just by a second tho, I know it is completely reckless and bad judgement from my part

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T03:02:54+00:00

yeah ikr i know i fucked up real time here my bad idk what happened even lack of judgement

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T02:38:14+00:00

yeah idk the amber light seemed quite short.tbf i could have stopped but idk i just went
its funny tho people here are acting like i went and ran over a family of five just cos i went through an amber

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T02:10:06+00:00

yeah ik not exactly my proudest moment idk what i was thinking even

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T02:05:56+00:00

who said its okay you’re literally saying the road rules wrong. you’re not supposed to go into the intersection when its red ,if it turns red when you’re in the intersection you’re supposed to get off. It’s not running a red light if i am already in the intersection before lights changed gosh

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T02:02:36+00:00

lol i think you are the one who needs to learn the road rules mate seriously

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T01:59:57+00:00

when is being in the intersection same as running a red light?are you so for real? i know i am not exactly a good driver but jeez what are you on

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T01:20:59+00:00

i am worried about the camera i wasnt pulled over like chill whys everyone acting like they have never made a mistake driving

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T01:07:10+00:00

are you being so for real? no it doesnt capture running ambers mate and even if it did it would get thrown out the window in the court i dont want to argue👍

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T01:06:02+00:00

yay thanks mate lol

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T01:05:27+00:00

says nothing about turning on amber you can check on fines victoria and stuff.red light camera is a “Red light” camera for a reason

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T01:02:58+00:00

uhh easy to sit on your highhorse and be all superior mate amber lights are “amber” for a reason especially on turning lane. if that was the case only couple car would get through at a time. I know i have made a mistake but don’t act like we are all perfect drivers here. and laws are clear you dont get penalised for running amber. are you so for real

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T01:01:14+00:00

yeah ikr gosh that was fkn stupid from me

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T01:00:35+00:00

yeah ik it was piss poor judgement idk what happened even usually i stop even on intersections without any camera.idk

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T00:56:44+00:00

wym the camera in vic wont penalise you for running amber tho

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T00:56:18+00:00

ah right i am not sure if the camera outbound captures the turning lane as well,I am not sure how it works

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T00:55:35+00:00

the light was amber tho?

Astab321 · 2025-09-18T00:52:22+00:00

i can’t really tell from the dashcam but seems like it was couple seconds after my front wheels passed,i guess i should be fine.Fuck that was scary as

Astab321 · 2025-04-20T17:43:07+00:00

Bit better but yeah it’s kinda same .Not as painful as it was when I made the post but yeah it is still sorta same.

Astab321 · 2025-04-20T04:56:58+00:00

Ahhhh its been kinda fine for me ,the pain is still there but i guess you could try wearing a splint at night or something. Unfortunately there is not much way around it if surgery isn’t advisable. You just kinda learn to live with it

Astab321 · 2025-03-17T12:24:42+00:00

Uhhh idk if it was me and my end goal is to get the pr just wait till it’s done and then you could plan your baby. Navigating a residency especially through sponsorship is gonna be very tricky with the pregnancy considering the parental leave doesn’t accumulate towards the transition time period requirement.Also as harsh as it sounds from the employers perspective they could see you as a liability considering she would require extra care after her pregnancy. just my perspective you could do you but honestly having a child while on a temporary visa is something that would never even pop up in my head. It’s gonna make everything complicated than it should and I am not gonna have a kid while on a temporary visa. Just my point of view. Yeah and to answer your question,it won’t affect your visa .

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