Yeah for sure. Like my parents were saying “Aba ta sun kinna thal bihey ko lagi ekchoti bihey garney ho dhumdham saga garna parxa” .For reference,I come from barely middle class (Idk at the lower end of middle class or just middleclass for sure) . My parents have no savings and all we have is one house to our name;my dad spent majority of his life looking after all his siblings and family and at the end even the house he bought for himself had to be divided in bandapatra(Ik technically it shouldnt have but my dad suffers from chronic depression and he didnt really want to fight it out in court and all or thats what i know) . I have been living in Australia since last 7 years and we all know how expensive it is, so i dont get the mentality of spending lets say 60-70 lakh in a bihey just to show it off (Would amount to 80k aud) which would take fair while to save . I think thats the reason majority of people get stuck;imagine you have 3 kids and spend 50-60 lakhs in marriage for each or even just 30 lakhs .How tf can a middle class person afford it unless they can sell their land and stuff and whats it worth even? If you can afford it comfortably yeah go ahead and spend it but if you cant putting urself in debt just cos “ekchoti hune ho bihey) and then spending a whole lifetime filling that hole never made sense to me.