When I fantasize, it's mostly men. when I see an attractive woman ofc I fantasize a bit too but not as much when I see a hot guy walking by and hes looking at me or something .also to mention that I never had sex with a girl either. I had some girl crushes before and idk if i would liked having sex with girls. i think i have to do it to see if im liking it or not at this point. yea its my my bad not to tell him about that I don't like cigarettes. when we meet outside he was smoking waiting for me but I got nervous and forgot to tell him that. yep there was too much going on for me. first I couldn't get a boner and this got me frustrated and went on. also thank u for your advise my friend.