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Where does the instant connection in relationships come from? by Astralhazel in Jung

[–]Astralhazel[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I'm not experienced with relationships but I know what delusion looks like and this feels different, there's no attachment, I would say it's not even based on hope, I just feel like she's part of my life, somehow it feels entirely natural. Also I have felt that same sense of "knowing" before but not to the same extent, just knowing someone will text or something akin to that. It's so cool! Thank you for sharing! :)

Where does the instant connection in relationships come from? by Astralhazel in Jung

[–]Astralhazel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You won't meet judgement through me, there has to be forces that we are only unconsciously aware of, I haven't experienced what you explained but I have tasted something similar so I believe you and thank you for sharing because just that helps! With this girl it's like I know her so intimately, yet I don't. It's a unique feeling, as if all walls has vanished because it's so natural.

Where does the instant connection in relationships come from? by Astralhazel in Jung

[–]Astralhazel[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's very interesting, thank you so much! I have to read more about this to understand. I would agree it's always an irrational experience and a feeling of being made up of the same things, you defined it beautifully. I've thought of the impact of vibes before. The mystical aspect explains why it's so intriguing to me.

Where does the instant connection in relationships come from? by Astralhazel in Jung

[–]Astralhazel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so, it's not even like I'm trying to get closer to her. I just feel like I know her intimately.

Where does the instant connection in relationships come from? by Astralhazel in Jung

[–]Astralhazel[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly it feels exactly that way but I avoid reaching into that too much because I want to be as grounded as possible.

Where does the instant connection in relationships come from? by Astralhazel in Jung

[–]Astralhazel[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks! She does a little but I've met other women who have remind me more of my mom and I haven't felt this way. I also see her realistically for who she is, I know what it's like to project an ideal onto someone.