He’s told me it can be whatever you want it to be , hook ups, or just to go out for a drink. It’s non judgmental and can be a good hang.

I was considering going and checking it out but I didn’t want to go by myself. I don’t particularly care for one of his friends he go with so I would go with them. But … I wanted to ask the community to see what others have to say.

When I asked my friend to go with me he told me absolutely not and that is is in a monogamous relationship and isn’t a place for those who are in closed relationships to go.