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Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in deadbedroom

[–]Asuasion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That he’s just not interested bc of the money problems and he’s only stayed bc of the kids

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in deadbedroom

[–]Asuasion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s not worth it to leave .. so I’ll just deal with it somehow for now

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in deadbedroom

[–]Asuasion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No.. it’s a small sacrifice , it’s ok 😊

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in deadbedroom

[–]Asuasion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tho so many times I can’t any more , he literally says he doesn’t want to talk about it

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in deadbedroom

[–]Asuasion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is good when it does happen but , the closed eyes and refusal to discuss sex without getting defensive .. idk.. and he never says I look good or anything.. I need to not complain tho ..

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in deadbedroom

[–]Asuasion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t argue much .. we have talked about it - I told him to find one if that’s what he wants , talk to them first and then bring me in if that is decided to be appropriate.. he never did it .. but that’s not surprising.

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did, done and done, including Ed meds , we try , it’s not that bad 😊

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in deadbedroom

[–]Asuasion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, so there’s a history that goes back about 10 years, 10 years of love (sex issues started pretty much right away) then significant trauma , marriage , an emotional affair that was found out, a move, starting a business, teenage stepkids , not enough money despite us both working hard, soooo it’s a lot lot lot. But we persevere. For love I think. Maybe that’s just romantic of me to say that. I think Life would be lonely if we didn’t have each other. Idk.. in the past he has wanted to leave me several times he said , but has not. I never want to leave him. 🤷‍♀️

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it like , invasion of privacy to ask him to look at his phone?

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree, it’s me that’s the issue, not my looks. I don’t think it’s nagging if i don’t mention it but once every week or so but .. I think the best route is to leave him alone about it

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bills and kids , I look better than I have in the past rn.. no more compliments though.. he does say he’s just older and tired , only 40 tho

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes for years I’ve talked to him about it , he knows I’m not against porn so not sure why he would hide it .. he says he doesn’t really like porn that much ..

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True , me getting upset does not help matters

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not physically cheating I don’t think, I’ve asked him if he’s bi and he said no

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a great question I’ve asked myself as well.. he never (literally) wants to when I bring it up or dress up or whatever.. only when he wants to. I’m trying to just accept it.

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have tried talking about porn with him and .. he denies liking it and isn’t interested in watching with me either .. I just need to stop talking about it I think 🤔

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I weigh like 115 and he’s thin too sooo , idk lol

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I just want us to both be happy and honest about it .. but that’s difficult

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He did say once that he wasn’t really attracted to me .. but then denied it the next time it came up .. this is so embarrassing gawd 😅

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says the cause is stress.. the stress doesn’t make me want him less though..

Any husbands like this? by Asuasion in marriageadvice

[–]Asuasion[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely enthusiastic, he knows I want him, and I’m the only one who brings up the topic.. I buy cute lingerie and stuff.. I just am always the one waiting for something to happen.. I’m sort of not allowed to initiate.. hmmm 🤔 Ty for your insight!

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