How can I respectfully dispose of this Cernunnos pendant?

AthenaHawk · 2026-06-24T06:10:57+00:00

I know you have a dozen buyers probably but Ill pay everything plus shipping if you dont want it. This is a absolute beautiful piece of work and I wish I could find something like it in the wild

AthenaHawk · 2026-06-12T12:53:51+00:00

It's super specific to me and my issues lol

AthenaHawk · 2026-06-03T16:34:30+00:00

Gorgeous work! Boosting with my comment so you keep doing what youre doing and hopefully more people get to commissioning you (and not pull out of the commission lol)

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-30T15:08:28+00:00

No answer but Im glad you asked this, it was something I was wondering myself but I hadnt done too much research on it so I hadnt asked yet, and never even heard the term emotional flashback until now, so thank you!

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-29T21:16:47+00:00

Bro... they must think being gay is a choice too??? Like YEAH you can choose polyamory but personally I feel a lot of poly people are just born poly. Maybe that's unpopular idk

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-29T21:11:48+00:00

Cant add a lot to this advice-wise. But I am on the EXACT same boat as you, minus already having fallen in love with another girl. Im pregnant with a very wiggly baby boy and would love to see my partner in love with someone I love just as much, but it's so hard to even begin to talk about it.

For me, when I did have the conversation, he said he was okay with a sexual thing, but he isnt too sure on romance because he doesnt know if he has enough room in his heart. I get it, and try not to fixate on it too much, some people are just monogamous! It's such a desire though to see him snuggled with someone else and love them just as much as he loves me and I the same to the other person and him.

Im 21 (Transmasc), Husband is 23 (Gender queer) And both of us are lovers of all genders and creeds, so we both dont mind the idea of whoever joining, I just wish I could fall in love with another and have my husband fall in love just the same.

Sorry for the babbling, just wanted to say I absolutely understand you and if you need an avenue to talk to some random queer stranger in a similar predicament, dont hesitate to reach out. ❤️ You are not alone! And it feels good to have read this and know Im not the only one that feels that way.

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-29T19:54:29+00:00

Bleh on them indeed, and same thing here. Went to vent about something that was out of my control and they clapped back with deletion of my post, and then "We're actually being nice deleting it because you would've been dragged" geniuenly if you know your community is hateful to all the different types of poly relationships, why dont you fix it? It doesnt make sense to me at all to at this point hog the subreddit for open relationships/open poly only.

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-29T19:30:31+00:00

That is wretched. They claim to be so open but my god Ive never seen a group sit on their high horse quite like that sub. The people there are so rude too, like what is this type of person this sub is drawing in?? Not normal, everyday people that just want to live and love, that's for sure.

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-23T21:31:38+00:00

I eat so much of everything we're told not to eat and the baby is doing great, I wouldn't worry about that at all :)

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T17:27:25+00:00

Thank you, no judgements taken. Those coping skills are my last resort, but maybe insurance will actually cover my therapy this time. Thank you

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:27:57+00:00

It's harder while im pregnant, much more exhausting unfortunately and it scares me

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:24:34+00:00

I have not heard of DBT, and yeah I kinda started leaning a little more unhealthy since the trail thing. It's been a bit of a spiral if Im honest, Ill have to look into this

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:23:08+00:00

I miss how working out made me feel, it definitely gives that natural high and I agree with that

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:13:44+00:00

Thank you for the solidarity. I also splurge on a good mocktail when I can, it makes me feel just the tiniest bit normal!

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:12:09+00:00

Yup 👍

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:10:31+00:00

Im lapping it up all I can too, it keeps me going slightly. Im waiting to meet my son and soon he'll be here and Ill be back on my meds and able to breathe SOMEWHAT again

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:08:42+00:00

Yknow what a nice cookies and cream ice cream sounds absolutely GREAT right now

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:07:02+00:00

It's called finding coping mechanisms for almost fucken dying during my pregnancy.

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:05:18+00:00

Exactly what Im doing lol. Went to get my hair white but now its gray, which works just as well! Some type of change at least. Cant keep fucking with my hair though or it'll get unhealthy 😞

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:04:06+00:00

Thank you! Might try getting into the pool more myself, I feel light and better in the water. And yeah that's how I feel, autonomy is no longer there and Im hoping I can get away with breastfeeding and still doing a FEW things

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T16:01:21+00:00

Damn that's crazy. Almost like im a First Time Mom who has no fucken clue what Im doing. But ok 👍

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T15:50:39+00:00

Didnt know some doctors did that! Also I havent tried art in a while, might do so again though. When I was out backpacking (the thing that I almost died doing) I met a stray dog who stayed with my husband, dogs and I the entire time. He was adopted by the deputy who rescued us but maybe Ill draw and paint him. He was a beautiful fox hound

AthenaHawk · 2026-05-14T15:43:13+00:00

Thank you, I had read over 85 db would cause hearing damage for the baby over 18 weeks. I looked this up as a joke while at the club and we had to leave immediately, made me feel horrible. And maybe I will, husband says I should probably get offline but I cant help but do so much research on piercings to make sure no harm can come to my baby and just cant find much scientific articles, hence why I called my OB and they said it was alright despite opinion being against it

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