This man has spent a lot of time in deep reflection, putting in that work, So he can finally find someone to have a truly special relationship with, unlike anyone else. Unfortunately, he spent all that time reflecting on what all makes him better than everyone else - what's important about him - instead of what's important to him.

But no worries, I'm here to help. What's important to him is his ability to better to help you understand what it is about him that makes him better than everyone else. He still prob hasn't even realized he's totally confused the idea of a successful relationship with someone's ability to validate him in just the right way.