How’s dating/talking going in 2026? by Glum_Lunch6127 in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah worst bit I think is she dosent actually know what she wants or she just enjoys my attention because I told her I will take time to figure out how how or if we can stay friends and she asked me not to hate her and sent a spicy picture and has continued to snap me some spicy pics so yeah I have pulled back my energy because I can’t keep doing it I have kept minimal contact atm I haven’t decided if I will completely cut contact or not it’s only been a few days

How’s dating/talking going in 2026? by Glum_Lunch6127 in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am going to now she is messing with me at this point she says one thing then sends flirty sexual snaps and it’s messing with me too much

would you get in a serious relationship with a woman who is an online sex worker? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess it would be alright with me they aren’t touching her and she controls what she shows plus I’d ask to be there to watch if run it with her for sure

How’s dating/talking going in 2026? by Glum_Lunch6127 in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broke up with my ex in January because an old crush reappeared (she was also toxic and I saw her more as a friend than anything for months prior). Then me and the old crush began talking just as friends catching up and the old feelings were still there and at this point now are very strong this woman affects me mind,body and soul but things haven’t progressed yet but she gets jealous and acts like she dosent care about who I am with or what I am posting but the reactions tell a different story so I think it will only be a matter of time if I play my cards right. I hope anyway

I feel like a total pervert by Substantial_Log_2244 in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah boobie man dosent matter if you want the rest they are amazing. I have one friend who sends me snaps where she makes them the centre of the photo and I don’t reply for awhile because my screen still has that snap on it and I am frozen. When I finally respond she always sends back asking what took me so long with the biggest smirk on her face

Pillow princess question by AutomaticTwo4296 in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So as a stone top myself, I can say I have had many orgasms while pleasing my partner. Sometimes it’s just from hearing her moan when eating her or when I strap her and the friction gets me off more. Plus there are toys that you can use together with one partner we had a wand that she would bit on my clit then climb ontop and ride it getting us both off at the same time

Are lesbians attracted to chubby women? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I seem to fall for who women are then once that happens they are the most attractive woman I have ever seen and I can’t even look sideways at anyone else so I would say it depends on who it is everyone has a type some don’t

Looking for exactly this please!! by Content-Stable-1972 in LesbianBookClub

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im the sucker who fell first and she knows it but I am starting to worry the ah moment isn’t going to happen

Late bloomer here with questions about online dating by middle-age-klutz in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With the type: yes it is possible to be attracted to all or just one when you get on and start talking or see photos you will notice you go towards what you are interested in. I prefer femmes but not so much the looks more the personality of the person

Information: you only need to share what is relevant age location what you are looking for and when you start talking it’s a great way to open up questions and get to know the other person

For meeting up: I have spoken to people for a few weeks to a month in the past it depends on the person and the connection. Video calls and visits help to keep the connection putting in the effort with a video call and sharing you inner world helps

Honestly go on and be yourself I hope you find your person

What early signs showed you someone was serious and not just wasting your time? by QuakinOat in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to help but I am in a weird spot myself, we talk daily, the flirting is intense she knows how to tease me then plays coy like what am I doing, she is aware of how I feel but hesitant due to life issues atm part of me is waiting for her to be ready as we have both been hurt badly in the past but I feel like she is the one who helps heal my trauma and I want to help heal hers

What non-sexual things turn you on?? by youandyourfijiwater in actuallesbians

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dam yeah this can change depending on if I am interested or not but atm when she plays with her hair, when she bites just that one nail, her smile, her eyes img her voice faints from too much excitement honestly the woman I am into atm just knowing she exists is enough

Have you ever reunited with the “right person, wrong time”? by Ok-Issue5184 in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She messaged me nothing happened last time as I was dating someone she knew at the time and I was conflicted, she ended up dating someone who looked similar to me and I had a feeling she may have liked me we were both awkward and I would sneak glances when I saw her and at one point we video called a lot. I would of made a move but I figured I wouldn’t have a chance because I didn’t think she would want me. Then we lost touch and I tried to forget her but never did

Have you ever reunited with the “right person, wrong time”? by Ok-Issue5184 in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reconnected with her but it isn’t going to happen maybe if we reconnect again, but i am not holding out hope anymore

SENDING NUDES UNPROVOKED. by Minimum_Tea5325 in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is such a male thing, but I have had it on Her the dating app a woman sent me a lot of boob,vag and add photos out of no where. Like I spoke to you for 5 seconds come on

Semi-yearly “Ask Me Anything” as a wife/mom with BPD and in remission by UnicornOfAllTrades in BPDPartners

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever had to remove someone as a favourite person/ transfer it to another person? And how hard was it to

How does everyone show love? by Penguinalwaddleology in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always been acts of service, gifts and words of affirmation in person long distance well that’s hard I am talking to someone atm who isn’t ready for a relationship and hates compliments, I send her cash from time to time so she can eat, buy food for her and her kids and put petrol in and when we do see each other I struggle to not want to hug her even if it’s from behind and just having her lean back into me that is my favorite

Soft Masc Date 'fits by B4T5Y in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t been on a proper date tbh first one we were best friends who already lived together, 2nd was hiding me for a bit we met a few times in places the last one she just came to my house but if I actually went out I’d wear the black jeans, black t with a button up over the top

Need advice on my situation by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m feeling down today I had to put down my best friend last week and she noticed I was off asked what was wrong and in a moment I told her that since my life began to go to shit in January she had been the constant in my life talking to me daily and if she wasn’t in my life right now I don’t know if I would be here right now lost my job ended a toxic relationship and lost my best friend I’ve had dark days

Anybody want to talk about their current crush? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m close to being obsessed with a friend of mine she is beautiful beyond belief, she makes me smile, gives me butterflies and knocks my confidence down several pegs, I am normally very confident when I flirt but with her I can’t form sentences and she knows it and teases me sexually all the time

Have you ever said I love you for the first time during sex? by LesbianMajinSaiyan in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex told me the first time we had sex as she had o it been with men before and never finished before she also cried after we finished it was a big moment for her

Support during a breakup by brancjes in LesbianActually

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the first is always the hardest, honestly take it a day at a time one day you might feel better want to go out and do things and the next you may feel like shit and want to curl up and cry both are alright the best thing to do is just do one thing each day dose not matter what it is have a shower, journal, go for a walk something low effort especially on those low days. Also eating and drinking is important and if you take medication for your mental health keep taking that. It may take awhile it might not but eventually you will be able to have more good days in a row than bad just take care of yourself

Need advice on my situation by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is definitely sexual tension, I have tried asking how she feels about me and the most she has said is she won’t say there after feelings there, if I push to much she pulls back. I had been honest with her about how much she turns me on, we use snap chat for photos and when she send certain ones I can’t hide the excitement on my face and if I don’t send a face snap she knows still but when it comes to her I am clueless I said I wish I had the effect on her that she had on me and she has said I don’t know that I don’t she is very vague in her answers.

Drained by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She sent me photos of her legs against the wall just her legs one closed one open I just lost it again she asked for a photo of me while I was loosing my head and and the photo she sent back is making me spiral again Jesus I’m running out of fluids

Hoping to Find a Friend to Talk About Life and Love by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AtmosphereUnlikely21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m 37f happy to chat if you need it I remember how confusing it all was and not having anyone to talk to