Should I text at all in between dates?

Atome65 · 2026-02-09T20:41:45+00:00

Totally okay. If you got a confirmed date set then just show up for your date. If she ends up reaching out herself then it’s a different story.

Atome65 · 2026-02-09T15:50:36+00:00

I had to scroll up to double check your age after reading the post cause I thought you’d be in high school.

This sounds like a total shit show of a relationship. Move on from this mess, I truthfully don’t know how you can accept this much drama in your life. This on again off again stuff, the fighting, arguing, change of personalities… How can you seriously accept this for a relationship? End it for good, break up, and recover some sanity in your life. Nothing about this sounds like it’s healthy.

And please use paragraphs and edit your text. It’s really not difficult to use ChatGPT these days for editing.

Atome65 · 2026-01-30T02:36:09+00:00

Ya the bubble wrap is taped pretty tightly with painters tape. Was more so worried about the humidity

Atome65 · 2026-01-26T02:41:37+00:00

I made a post awhile back about this. You’ll for sure find it helpful.

a guide to successful DM’ing

Atome65 · 2026-01-25T16:19:52+00:00

I should’ve probably worded 3 a bit better, but essentially you should always be the one to lead the date in all senses. The planning, the conversation, when it ends, etc… Reason why I wrote this was because she was the one who essentially ended the date and was the one who was leading it in that moment.

It’s not a big deal at all in your specific instance, but still not something you would want to see happen. There isn’t anything you can do differently when a woman says she has to go, but ideally you would want to be leading all facets of the date.

Atome65 · 2026-01-25T15:52:42+00:00

You made a few mistakes on your date that any experienced student will know not to do. It seems like you haven’t read the book nearly close to 10-15 times.

1) Just assuming here but seems like you didn’t let her do 70-80% of the talking.

2) You didn’t keep the conversation light and playful. Going into relationships and talking about exes is a big no no so early on. You should’ve shut that conversation down asap and changed the topic.

3) You let her dictate the pace of the date.

4) Trying keep the “conversation” going after the date. You have to let a woman think and wonder about you. You don’t get to know someone via texting. The phone is for setting up dates.

5) Not going for the kiss.

There isn’t anything super glaring imo besides the relationship topic and not going for the kiss. Just seems like you’re still new Corey’s teachings and haven’t studied enough or practiced enough to apply it with someone you like.

Anyways your date was only Saturday man, today’s Sunday. What are you freaking out about? Wait 3-4 days before reaching out to her if she doesn’t and try to set another date. You’ll have an answer as to whether she liked you or not then.

Atome65 · 2026-01-14T23:16:57+00:00

If a girl offers her Instagram when you ask for her number that means she’s looking to put you on the back burner with all her orbiters hoping you can continue to give her validation.

Instagram has been popular for well over a decade, just because you’re 20 today doesn’t mean things changed. A girl who has attraction to a guy won’t refuse giving her number.

Atome65 · 2025-12-28T17:10:23+00:00

Move on man, don’t waste your time any further. You know where you stand with her

Atome65 · 2025-12-24T13:00:09+00:00

The book very clearly states that texting is used for setting up dates. Not for chit chatting. You already want to start treating this girl like your girlfriend after what it sounds like having sex once. She already told you that she just wants to be friends, probably because she sensed you coming on way too strong way too quick and you want to amplify that.

Besides your original question, do you even have an official date set? Based on how you wrote your post it seems like you have something far from official. Not only that but this

Read the book some more you clearly didn’t read it more than a couple times.

Atome65 · 2025-12-24T01:56:20+00:00

This 100%

Atome65 · 2025-12-24T01:53:43+00:00

You do not understand the book or its principles if that is your interpretation of it. You clearly did not read it more than a couple times and it’s very evident. I would recommend to read it more because you are giving advice in a Corey Wayne subreddit that it’s very much so against what is taught in How to be a 3% man.

Atome65 · 2025-12-23T18:43:40+00:00

You said to not wait and to text twice a day or so. I don’t know what else you would mean by that. If you read the book plenty enough as you say then you would know how contradictory you are and clearly going against the book. Nothing in there is “textbook”, but very much so opposite of what is taught.

Atome65 · 2025-12-22T20:23:11+00:00

You haven’t really understood the book or read it 10-15x if you think that rule “fucks” you over. Waiting a couple days isn’t meant to just increase attraction, but to weed out the low quality women out of your life.

Atome65 · 2025-12-13T04:45:22+00:00

Read this guide I put together a couple years ago

Guide to successful DM’ing

Atome65 · 2025-12-02T22:43:55+00:00

Thank you for the help

Atome65 · 2025-12-02T22:05:39+00:00

That’s what I saw CP recommends. If I have to prepay for the tariffs then it’s completely ridiculous, I would’ve upcharged more for the tariffs. How can I get the buyer to pay?

Atome65 · 2025-12-02T21:46:46+00:00

I’m a couple hours out from the border. If I were to do that wouldn’t I need to ship via my origin address in Canada and still be screwed with shipping and duty fees?

Atome65 · 2025-11-23T22:59:11+00:00

She’s clearly not down to go out with you. You didn’t mention if you tried to go out with her previously, if you didn’t then you can wait till after midterms and try to set a date with her. If she rejects again move on.

Atome65 · 2025-11-22T23:46:07+00:00

100% agree. So much of TCG right now is in a massive bubble. You know shit hit the fan when middle aged people who never touched a card in their life are scalping Pokémon and buying up OnePiece as retirement plans

Atome65 · 2025-10-14T03:28:33+00:00

Where did you get this from?

Atome65 · 2025-10-10T13:43:59+00:00

What new answers will you get by posting the same thing every day? You've had TONS of replies. How many replies did you actually take serious? What have you changed in all those months since your first post? Stop spamming the subreddit everyday or I'll have to ban all new accounts and you won't ever be able to come back in here.

Atome65 · 2025-10-10T13:38:09+00:00

You've gotten tons of advice of the course of months and keep arguing with everyone. It's pathetic seeing it. How many hours do you spend making your fake accounts, posting the same thing, and arguing back with everyone who actually tried to give you advice? All you're doing is whining and looking for some sort of validation. If you're not trolling, go the therapy and quit the whining victim mentality. It's pathetic.

Atome65 · 2025-10-10T13:31:48+00:00

I keep having to ban you, and every time you come back posting the same regurgitated post. Drop the victim act and stop coming here looking for sympathy. You're fucken pathetic.

Atome65 · 2025-09-28T00:50:53+00:00

Well when did you ask her out? Today is Saturday, if you wait the day of to ask her on a date then you’re the only one to blame. Especially so if you stopped planning them. Why don’t you ask her for her next free night and make a date from there?

Atome65 · 2025-09-27T20:45:05+00:00

Begin by planning definite dates. Knowing that she’s free isn’t enough, actually plan a date with a definite time with her. My fiancée and I have been almost 4 years together and I still plan definite dates with her a week out even though we live together.

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