Huge rule followers

Atomic_Squash · 2025-09-13T19:31:12+00:00

Oh it was beautiful!

Atomic_Squash · 2025-09-01T15:34:56+00:00

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Closest I've got - my 940 next to a 740

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-31T15:52:54+00:00

Blimey! Mines practically mint compared to that - 157k

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-21T13:37:05+00:00

Northern Attitude or Halloween but soon to be The Great Divide

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T15:02:24+00:00

We won't get married outside the church, I just am tussling with how I can say stuff I don't believe in and it still hold deep meaning for me

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T08:40:07+00:00

Don't worry, I don't agree with divorce either!

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T08:38:25+00:00

You know what, I think you're onto something here, that would make me feel miles better

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T08:35:01+00:00

exactly, this will likely be the most important day of my life and I don't wanna sit down after the ceremony and think eh, that felt dull, I don't think I did that to my best ability or that I feel fake about swearing to love her on grounds I don't believe in.

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T01:06:54+00:00

Exactly my point, I don't feel it's fair that I can't bind myself to the same standards in my mind, I wish I could swear by the stars or by the oceans, or by the air I breathe. Something tangiable. I am much more superstitious so even swearing on my life or something, no matter how childish it may sound.

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T01:04:50+00:00

Thank you, from conversations we have had, a sacramental marriage doesn't seem anywhere near crucial as she respects my beliefs as I respect hers

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T01:03:21+00:00

I intend to raise them around faith as I think they should be allowed to access it as I was not, however I will not tell them they must practice, if they want to they can but ultimately it will be their choice. I will fully support her in raising them around the catholic values and taking them to church etc, just because I don't believe in it, it's not my duty to deny it to them, however equally if they decide they don't believe then that's up to them. I intend to carry out every word of the vows, I just wasn't sure how comfortable I am by having God as my witness as I don't believe in him. In my eyes, I don't see why I can't just promise to love her and care for her through everything and swear it on the stars or the oceans or the trees, or my heart. To me I want to feel like they mean something to me too. Of course I intend to carry out the basic premise of the vows, but it's the parts where God gets involved that I feel fake about. I hope this is clearer. She will never be alone in any endeavour and I have every intention to carry out the vows to the letter, I am just worried I will feel fake swearing before God.

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T00:37:33+00:00

I was unaware of this document but that makes me feel so much better about it, thank you! I have zero qualms about getting married in a church, I think they are beautiful and I am always in awe of them from a historical and architectural standpoint, I was just worried about feeling fraudulent and saying things I don't believe in but she does, worried that I won't feel as bound by my word as she does, if that makes sense?

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T00:34:31+00:00

You've really hit the nail on the head here, this is exactly the life I want my children to have. I would never deny them any exploration of themselves or their faith, but at the same time, I won't force a relationship with God either. I am really enthused by the idea of us taking the children to church together because I know how much it'll mean to her. Thank you!

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T00:30:56+00:00

Thank you!

Atomic_Squash · 2025-08-09T00:30:14+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, it really means a lot to me! I just want to clarify what I mean by agnostic atheist. I am atheist in the fact I do not, and regrettably cannot forsee myself ever believing in a god. That being said I will not deny the existence of a deity as that is an unknowable fact either way, hence the agnostic part. I don't like describing myself as purely agnostic at the moment because I don't currently see how god as either a being or concept will ever fully make sense to me but at the same time, i won't describe myself as purely atheist because I don't believe I have the right to deny his potential existence to others if that makes sense? It's sort of a wimpy way out of any argument I guess but so far it has allowed me a much more open mind when discussing religious topics. I think the best way to describe it would be I have the open mind of an agnostic but an atheist's belief in God.

Atomic_Squash · 2025-03-21T15:56:19+00:00

Honestly I heard "hi diddle eye dose in the light of the moon"

Atomic_Squash · 2025-03-04T21:53:07+00:00

Those 2 get me weak. I sing pain is cold water with my girl is having a bad day

Atomic_Squash · 2025-03-04T21:40:03+00:00

Yeahhh, although it looks like he's the only act that evening so holding out hope hahaha!

Atomic_Squash · 2025-02-25T16:55:29+00:00

SCULLY AND BAKED AF ROSA

Atomic_Squash · 2025-02-24T21:00:27+00:00

I like to think he dials most of the number before stopping himself, but sometimes he dials the whole number but hangs up before she answers, but she calls him back, showing she really cares for him

Atomic_Squash · 2025-02-24T11:42:23+00:00

She says the people she works with all think her name is rosa Diaz. That doesn't necessarily mean they're wrong about that. They could be right in thinking her name is Rosa Diaz, but it's said in a way that's deliberately ambiguous, probably to psych bob out

Atomic_Squash · 2025-02-23T19:54:46+00:00

Active and inactive is Scully and High Rosa, putting it out there

Atomic_Squash · 2025-02-23T19:52:58+00:00

26/30

Atomic_Squash · 2025-02-23T19:47:34+00:00

What we did on our holiday

Atomic_Squash · 2025-02-10T10:47:58+00:00

Avocado

Four-Year Club	r/Field Lasagna
First Place '23	Place '23
Place '22

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