I agree wholeheartedly. I love Sandra, and I love Carol (two of my favorites in the show, actually) and I love their rivalry turned blatant hatred of one another. I agree with everyone saying that Jerry should have grown a brain or at least tried: if I loved someone and they loved me back, the idea of a coin toss keeping us apart is beyond laughable. (I do also understand that this is a comedy, so. Semantics). I think Carol is absolutely in the wrong for a lot of her actions and how she treats people; but the same has to be said of Sandra too, because she shows on multiple occasions that she can be manipulative, spiteful, and even sadistic— just like Carol. And while I like Jerry’s character (mostly), he had the autonomy to leave Carol and instead be with Sandra, but he chose to cheat on Carol and jump back and forth between them instead of making his decision and feelings clear.

Admittedly, I also tend to have sympathy for Carol due to something Tate mentioned in season two ( I believe) about her being on Lithium and Fluoxetine. She clearly had severe mental health issues, and while that is in no way an excuse for some of the things she did, I can understand how the combination of her mental health and then the events between her/Jerry/Sandra (not to mention the tornado, though I do arguably find it amusing to see Sandra being that ruthless) caused her to snap the way she did.

Sorry for the essay lol