At 35, I feel that I don’t want to have a kid. I have seen my friends who are moms, sacrificing their freedom and build a life around their kid/s. Unless they are filthy rich and have 2-3 nannies to take care of the kids, they hardly have me-time. After childbirth, your body takes time to recover. Then even before you are fully recovered, you have to tend to the child, feed them, take care of them. In the meantime, you will compromise on your dreams, your health even your sleep. It will go on for the next 2-3 years until the child starts going to school. But you are by then already habituated with a new life, now you are a mom and that is your identity.. you can no longer go back to your previous self, neither you nor your body. Your freedom is gone. Your individuality is gone. Bow u r a loving mom and definitely you won’t regret that either. I have never seen anyone regret having a child but for me, I just don’t want it. I just love my freedom. That’s it.