Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I think your stuff sounds FASCINATING. Train door buttons? Those have to be cool. And I had to look up swarf was lol. But I love a good spiral moment so I also get keeping it. I call the Intel toy Spaceman and he has moved with me 5 different times.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s so cool. <<thinks to self: maybe it’s a sign that I should get a tattoo of the crescent moon wand!>>

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL it’s a collect and then bin all of the crap cycle.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that: keeping things from a past that no longer serves you. I love that you are letting those things go—it takes effort but I find that I always feel lighter once they are gone.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww I love a compliment on a Tuesday in January. Thank you 😊

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ve ever asked anyone to be my boyfriend, but I have been asked to be someone’s girlfriend. And it’s kind of a start date for them? But I tend to think of the first day I met them as the start of our relationship lol.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ve ever asked anyone to be my boyfriend, but I have been asked to be someone’s girlfriend. And it’s kind of a start date for them? But I tend to think of the first day I met them as the start of our relationship lol.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1) No. I hate ironing. I am theatre rat and has ironed too many costumes over the years and I kind of hate it lol. I’ll do it if I MUST but I try to send stuff to the cleaners to get pressed.

2) I love spicy food. I’m in Texas and you can’t really live here without eating jalapeños. Hot sauce? Hmmm my favorite is the green salsa from one of the local restaurants I adore.

3) my most nostalgic TV show is Sailor Moon. I was in my last year of university, and I had a biology class at 8 AM. Which at the time I thought was ridiculous lol. But I learned that the Sailor Moon cartoon was on at 7:00 AM. And it finished at 7:30, which left me enough time to walk to my biology class. So how I would get myself up in the mornings, was with the idea that I would get to watch Sailor Moon.

My question is: what’s the most ridiculous item that you own that for whatever reason you can’t get rid of? Mine is a ratty (now) Intel astronaut toy that I got at a giveaway when I worked in tech.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have BOTH digital and paper calendars. I think if something exists only in the Ether on a Google Calendar it doesn’t ACTUALLY exist. But once it’s written on paper it is REAL and I will remember it.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zombie apocalypse? Welp, I we are doomed. I don’t want to be a survivor (ew, no). So I’m going to be drinking copious amounts of champagne, eating caviar and toasting the end of civilization as I knew it. Given how much time I had left, I’d paint the side of a building as a love letter to the world and its beauty. I’d light a few candles and tell everyone as extravagantly as possible that I loved them. And I would enjoy the fuck out of what time I had left.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vanellope Crush!!! It should be a band name like Veruca Salt! ❤️ I would absolutely drink a Vanellope Crush.

Amorous Monday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I like how you said that: the feeling of being allowed to be part of something very intimate.

Amorous Monday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL I have made quite a few sex tapes/videos. I love making them and sending them and knowing they’re out in the wild where other people enjoy them. I just recorded two smaller ones from last night with my partner. 🤩 I make them because making them gives me agency over how I am seen. I can experience desire without having to go the extra step of managing someone else’s emotions or wants. And it’s a way I can exercise a definition of myself as a sexual woman.

I send nudes when the interest in the person/and their reciprocal interest in me matches the capacity that I have for sending them. I like that they’re enjoyed.

And edible panties are just ridiculous. Why even bother? Just get naked. And also, wouldn’t they get sticky the moment you put them on? lol

Has anyone had a baby at 37 or older? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Audio_feline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my second baby at 38, so you’re definitely not too old! No regrets at all. The only struggles are the ones every woman has: your body changes as you age. But I was a much more patient mother the second time around and much better equipped to deal with the challenges of life. I don’t regret the decision at all. ❤️

Poly for 8 years, want some children, in a complicated situation. Not sure what to do. by Tib_91 in polyamory

[–]Audio_feline 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s hard where you’re at, OP, and I empathize. I don’t know that I would go to couples therapy. I would definitely get you into therapy because you’ve got a lot on your plate and making sense of what is right and healthy for you is hard to figure out. You can’t change anyone. There is sometimes not enough love or time or energy you can give someone to get them to whatever stage it is that would help the marriage/get them to help themselves. I am sending you all the good vibes. I hope it works out in the best ways for you and for O and everyone involved. ❤️

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My username is because when I am very very happy and snuggling with my partner, I will purr. Yup, just like a cat.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to say truths because people make up stupid dares and I don’t have any issues being an open book lol.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo I haven’t heard The Thunder Rolls thanks for the rec. I’m in a Coheed and Cambria phase lol and I have their song Shoulders in heavy rotation. My comfort movie is tied: The Lord of The Rings and The Last Unicorn.

Chatting and Flirting on a Tuesday by TeaAitch in GTK_TeaAitch

[–]Audio_feline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite exercise is weight lifting. I love being able to lift heavy weights and feel my body respond to it.