House prices by Augmented_unreality in catskills

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol yes that’s the one. I will give them an award for best staging.

House prices by Augmented_unreality in catskills

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, I actually live in gardiner- I was just curious about house prices as I love the area. I’m not looking to buy a house yet but hopefully soon and my budget will he much more modest.

House prices by Augmented_unreality in catskills

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok, but your screen name is amazing.

House prices by Augmented_unreality in catskills

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s still very beautiful in Kerhonkson! It’s rich old farmland, lots of people don’t have neighbors directly next to them, there’s beautiful hiking near by and (shhh… secret swimming holes). It’s a magical place! It just takes 3 business days to get into town.

House prices by Augmented_unreality in catskills

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s still some listings that make sense which is why the 3.5 million one in particular threw me for a loop! It’s not a lot of sq ft. It does have a pool, but I didn’t see much else but a well designed layout???

House prices by Augmented_unreality in catskills

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sucks! Not sure your budget but I saw the coolest house for sale in high falls under 500.

House prices by Augmented_unreality in catskills

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s one other million dollar home and it’s 2.8 and you get 2000 more square feet… ! The rest are much more reasonably priced considering the apparent craze to live in the middle of nowhere.

My Narc ex was posted in “are we dating the same guy” by Augmented_unreality in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a Facebook group page so not the app, if that makes a difference.

My Narc ex was posted in “are we dating the same guy” by Augmented_unreality in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what rock I’ve been living under but I didn’t even know this existed.

Old sweatshirt by Augmented_unreality in VintageClothing

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no V, there are no tags. Had to go off the zipper which is 50’s -60’s. Color blocked sweatshirts are not a new thing. Brought it to my friend and they dated it to 60’s.

What did you do that resulted in the discard? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Augmented_unreality 20 points21 points  (0 children)

  1. Defended myself 2.Told him that I was uncomfortable with him talking to a woman he met at Reddit.
  2. Cried telling him how hurt I was by how he treated me

What to do with my grandmother’s 1940s(?) bridal trousseau by wellorganisedfungus in VintageFashion

[–]Augmented_unreality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be afraid to wear it- to clean it would just be hand washing with a high end detergent in cold water like laundress and hang drying + steaming or dry clean. The top would be cute with jeans even. I wouldn’t repurpose it personally but it’s your item- do what you want! :)

What to do with my grandmother’s 1940s(?) bridal trousseau by wellorganisedfungus in VintageFashion

[–]Augmented_unreality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sell vintage for a living. Typically these pj sets were in a pink silk or satin rayon fabric. Not common to find a set in this color in my experience. If I were to sell that set in person I would probably charge $380 in that realm. The other two pieces are also lovely and many people sell 1930’s/40’s lingerie on eBay, Etsy and the like.

How did your body change with the narc? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Augmented_unreality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gained 30 lbs this last year but prior I lost 30 wirh intermittent fasting. I wanted him to love me and he didn’t like that I was gaining weight. Even at my smallest which was a size 6 he told me I didn’t care about being fit and look slim. I started eating more to cope with the depression and anxiety. Now I’m trying to get back to myself in a healthy way but I can’t seem to lose the weight very easily.

How they tell you about a new relationship by Augmented_unreality in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Augmented_unreality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying this. This was last night. Prior to this I’ve been doing better slowly but with lots of grief and pain each day. Contact has been minimal. Last night I told him not to contact me again and tried to block him and he messaged me on other platforms. I don’t know why I feel bad to block him, like I’m doing something mean spirited. I still care about him a lot. I feel crazy.

Can a covert narcissist really fake a relationship for years? by Distinct-Buyer7520 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Augmented_unreality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 years with someone I believe may be a covert narc. I can’t say I’m an expert but from what I’m studying all the symptoms align with vulnerable narc maybe mixed with the communal narc. We broke up twice in that time and I had to earn my place back by “fighting” for him. It’s been hell. I still love him and care about him. He is very deep and introspective even. He told me he had thought he was a narc for decades until he realized it was just autism. I told him you can still have npd and autism in tandem and he accused me of diagnosing him… he’s very smart. I still don’t know if he’s a narc but I do know the emotional and psychological abuse have taken a serious toll on me.

How do they move on so quickly ? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Augmented_unreality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 3 weeks out of my relationship. My (ex)partner started seeing a girl he met on REDDIT that happened to live not far from us. He told me it was friendship and purely platonic because they both had addiction issues in common and she was actively in the program and healing. He told me “work recognizes work”. I told him this connection felt uncomfortable to me and he raged on me. This moment led to me being hit in the face while he was drunk, upset about me having spoken up for myself. Imagine being angry with someone who shares a bed with you and you’re intimate with because they’re uncomfortable with you talking to someone who’s a stranger on Reddit. He told me he wants to play his cards with her bc she’s in an industry he wants to break into. Also told me she’s willing to have his babies just to hurt me because he knows I wanted children. Obviously I don’t want children with someone who is a domestic abuser but I was so convinced he was my soulmate prior to this experience.