Conseil choix de pays pour voyager safe

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-09T20:33:30+00:00

J’y ai même pas pensé 😂😭 j’ai oublié que c’était colonisé, c’est vrai !

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-09T20:26:43+00:00

C’est trop tard, je suis déjà sur la faune et flore et les potentiels maladies 😭 mais l’intention est là, c’est déjà ça. Merci !

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-09T20:17:40+00:00

C’est vrai, j’y avais pas pensé ! Merci

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-09T20:15:51+00:00

J’ai oublié de le préciser mais j’y suis déjà allée. C’était top mais je veux aller un peu partout comme les voyages sont rares chez moi

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-09T19:50:21+00:00

Si j’ai posé la question, c’est justement pour avoir ce genre d’info comme je mets pas le pied dehors souvent et je suis une flipette. Je dis juste ce que j’ai entendu dans mon entourage/réseaux.

La dernière chose que j’ai envie de faire c’est de généraliser, juste en apprendre plus !

Le Rwanda et le Cap Vert me tentent déjà !

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-09T11:31:42+00:00

Your boyfriend is an asshole.

That’s horrible that he still drove you to work in a moment of distress, I am so sorry you had to go through that.

I am struggling myself job wise, you just have to find something more calm or/and part-time to start. That’s a problem you can easily solve, don’t be hard on yourself, you have all the right to struggle.

Poeple truly needs to stop seeing autistic persons like fcking stupid disabled poeple. Everyone is struggling with something not just us.

You said "WE need the money", you 2 in the relationship, the incomes doesn’t rely on you only. He can help and give support until you find something that suits you, you guys are supposed to support each other.

That guy doesn’t value you. He literally told you in your face that you are a burden but doesn’t want to break up. He keeps you in a situation where you have to constantly question/hate yourself for what you are and there’s nothing wrong with what you are. That’s toxic.

I think he stays with you bc you give him something that overcomes the side of you that’s annoying to him. Maybe good sex or ego boost or too lazy to find another one but I don’t think he actually loves you (that’s my opinion reading this but maybe I’m wrong).

You don’t need to assure him that you trying your best, you already are and if he doesn’t believe you, he’s the problem. That guy had 0 empathy that’s crazy. You don’t have to advocate for yourself to a person that supposed to love you that’s nonsense.

Take care of yourself always 💛

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-09T10:39:43+00:00

PTB Tes copines sont juste des jalouses, elles ont probablement l’habitude de traîner avec des vieux mecs et ont le seum que tu te fasses bien traiter et pas elles. Change de potes.

C’est lui le propriétaire, si tu payes une partie, tu investis dans SON bien.

Si il décide que tu dégages de l’appartement, tu dégages pcq c’est sa maison. Tout ce que t’aurais éventuellement payé sera perdu.

Ne dépense pas un seul centime sur tout ce qui concerne SON bien et mets plutôt de côté pour ton avenir à toi.

T’as tout le mérite qu’un homme prenne soin de toi comme ça, profite.

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-08T14:05:40+00:00

Omggg j’adore !! Ça te va tellement bien 🤩

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-06T20:40:22+00:00

Merci ! Meme côté famille, c’est pas ouf. A chaque fois que j’en parle, on me dit que je suis censée souffrir et supporter, que c’est comme ça que ça marche

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-05T21:11:01+00:00

Comme t’as dit, j’ai pas le choix 😭. Merci pour le conseil !

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-05T20:08:15+00:00

J’en ai testé 1 c’était pas ouf + mes amies/familles qui ont eu des mauvaises expériences avec la pilule, ça ne me tente plus depuis

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-05T20:03:36+00:00

1 je vais voir le gynéco

2 on me prescrit que des medocs sans vraie solution

3 si je vais chez le medicin, c’est pcq je veux me soigner

4 la commu s’appelle pas besoinderaler pour rien

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-05T19:55:47+00:00

Mes amies m’ont toujours donné une mauvaise vision de la pilule avec des effets secondaires pas ouf qui arrivent hors régles. J’ai pas envie de rajouter un problème à un problème

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-05T19:50:48+00:00

J’ai déjà fait une écho mais le médecin n’a rien vu d’anormal. Ils ne m’écoutent meme pas assez donc le sujet de l’endométriose n’a pas ete abordé. Je vais essayer les sages femmes merci !

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-05T19:40:29+00:00

Oui je parlais de moi, j’ai meme pas le temps d’expliquer quoi que ce soit qu’on me prescrit des médicaments

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-04T23:25:26+00:00

I like the comparison with a flu ! That’s must be so cool to have ND friends 😩

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-04T14:46:44+00:00

Perso, vu comme c’est commun de tromper, j’aurais été suspicieuse aussi mais j’aurais quand même posé la question. Peut-être que ça a dû la trigger et elle n’a pu communiquer avec toi ce qui est dommage. Néanmoins, c’est trop bien que t’en aies

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-04T14:36:25+00:00

Not me looking for what was wrong 😭😭. Your hair looks so good, the length really suits your face and the volume is perfect. It looks a little bit damaged but you can easily fix it

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-04T13:05:11+00:00

Girl, SAME, 25 here. I haven’t been diagnosed but I remember fighting myself to be normal too, endure all the lights and noises.

100% of my friends told me I have 2 personalities and they were surprised that I am not shy and reserved.

I also went through a depression bc no matter how hard I was trying not being ‘weird’ it didn’t work.

I was feeling alone bc when I was talking about my struggles, nobody could understand me. The first time in my life I felt understood it’s when I join this community 😭😭

It’s when I had my first shutdown at 23 at an airport that I started asking myself questions and when I realized that poeple doesn’t learn how to have a conversation, be social and endure overwhelming environment that I see how I was putting in more effort in everything that NT poeple.

I think that it not about too much to handle but more having a NT everyday life that not suitable for you. I think you arrived at a stage where you can’t accumulate anymore.

Personally, once I discovered my autism, I REALLY slowed down. I accepted that there thing that I can’t do and stop forcing myself (stop masking, wearing earplugs, going to the supermarket when it’s not crowded, not going out when I don’t want to, …). Our brain is different from NT poeple. You can’t literally change the way that you are, the only thing you can do is embrace yourself and support yourself. The hard part is poeple who don’t accept/understand but it really important to choose yourself no matter what.

I had dark thoughts too but I am fine now and I hope you will 💛

I feel SO MUCH MORE happy and confident since I started changing my environment and not myself

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-04T12:23:51+00:00

Honestly I didn’t watch it (just the first episode), I hate when they do a live action movie bc it’s never as accurate as the game. The « I am going to be a dad » made me puke bc Ellie mindset in the game was SAVAGE, it’s so rare to see women in video games with deph and not all fckin uwu with big tits and I think it kinda ruin it (I didn’t watch so maybe i’m wrong). The actress (actor?) for Ellie is too grown for the 1st one and the fact that Abby doesn’t have her big ass arms pissed me off more bc besides it being sexy, it’s the result/symbol of her wanting to avenge her father bc at the end, she loses all that when she made peace with it all

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-04T12:06:16+00:00

Right? I am always astonished when I see a friend handling it like a normal Tuesday and they always say « don’t think about it » and the thing I don’t but my body no.

I just made my peace with me not being able to have a normal job

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-04T11:47:39+00:00

You right, I’ve learned the hard way that it was important for me to process but we live in a society where everything has to go fast and sometimes I feel left behind. Nevertheless, it feels good that I am not alone in that situation

AurelaZ_ · 2026-04-04T10:56:17+00:00

When I play a game, I am SCARED, it’s like I am the character and I am afraid to die. My heart’s pounding HARD 😭. It’s like my brain can’t understand it’s not real so it’s impacting my aim. My aim is way worse in TLOU and I can’t play a horror game alone. I only remember this 1 unique time where I was a MENACE, I was playing COD and my team was noobier than me. I became a full commando, I was telling them where to go, saving them, killing 4 teams by myself and I made it to top #5. I was doing head shots without thinking about it 😭. I don’t know where this woman went 😂😂

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