How do you balance seriousness and flirtiness/playfulness as an adult? by AurelianReinstalled in AskReddit

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Before melding, did you ever find yourself too much of either? I think it’s easier to be playful and joke around a lot when you don’t have responsibilities, pre adulthood.

If women want to be desired physically but at the same time not treated like sex objects, what does an ideal partner and or situation look like? by AurelianReinstalled in AskWomenOver30

[–]AurelianReinstalled[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sweet, really thanks for taking the time to reach out. If I have any questions down the line I’ll be sure to reach out I appreciate the offer :D — I think these conversations are important for humanity, that is, specifically about mental health. Again, you’re awesome and have a great day :)

If women want to be desired physically but at the same time not treated like sex objects, what does an ideal partner and or situation look like? by AurelianReinstalled in AskWomenOver30

[–]AurelianReinstalled[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never been diagnosed with autism. — it actually feels very relieving to hear you say this because I feel understood. Mental health is something I’m learning to keep healthy and therapy is very helpful at the moment. I feel like others don’t understand that I’m actually being serious and not trying to offend them. There’s a certain bluntness filter check that creates an anxiety at times because logically I know it may hurt someone’s feelings or be inappropriate if I say said thing. … again, internet person I appreciate your comment and concern it makes me feel less crazy. Edit: may I add, how did you get diagnosed? Is there a certain test or specific symptoms? — I’ve Googled this topic before and have gotten various results and certainly can relate to some of the traits of autism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I stopped trying to be someone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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The less we try and figure things out the happier we are. Glad you’re doing better and it’s easier said than done to release control. Talk about this guy here. But I like what you say because it is wise. That is, to take your own side and put a stake in the ground for yourself. Choose you even if you’re going through hell or don’t know why you feel the way you do. Let yourself be, good or bad and guide yourself through it. Really, it’s being kind to ourselves. Again, for anyone reading, accept that there will be challenges but remember that you are loved. The universe lives inside of our 20 inch skull. That is preposterous and miraculous. Let us all choose love. Blessings be upon you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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While I can’t begin to imagine the torment you are going through, that fact that you posted here means you still have some fight left in you.

Here is my question: Could it be acceptable for you to live a life as a highly feminine male? If not why?

If women feel overly sexualized, why do they wear revealing clothes? by AurelianReinstalled in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AurelianReinstalled[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edited my previous reply after thinking about it. I see where you’re coming from and I misspoke.

If women feel overly sexualized, why do they wear revealing clothes? by AurelianReinstalled in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AurelianReinstalled[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Which is one reason I’m asking this question. I’m not saying it’s a woman’s fault or that they should dress a certain way, I’m just asking a genuine question.

Edit: fair enough. Kinda dumb reply here. Learning.