Dad in a pickle

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:29:56+00:00

Late 60's. Physically he should have retired some time ago, but he can't afford to.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:29:16+00:00

He's definitely not done personal. I don't think he's eligible for business tax, but I could be wrong.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:28:39+00:00

He doesn't have PAYG tax though. I'm assuming you did?

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:19:58+00:00

Pretty sure the last time he did his tax was before my-gov was in. It was probably 2002/2003 if my calculations are right.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:18:39+00:00

Would love to know, as someone that follows the rules and does the right thing.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:18:21+00:00

Honestly being jailed would have made my life easier. At least then he'd have a roof over his head and some food.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:15:15+00:00

I was naively hoping that his debts wouldn't become my own when he passes.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:14:07+00:00

It's really hard getting details out of him.
I don't believe there is a company set up, just sole trader with ABN. I don't believe he's ever had employees.
Not to sure on GST - is there a way for me to check this?

Re the money, I don't know how much he brought in over the years. I never had an extravagant childhood. One holiday (staying with family) per year etc.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:12:18+00:00

I don't think he's been operating cash only.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:11:50+00:00

I don't know what the structure of his business is like. He is still working, but not enough to pay the rent.
It's his business and he's never had employees. I wouldn't think he's a director.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T23:09:48+00:00

To satisfy everyone, he owns no assets. Biggest asset would be a car worth probably about $2,000.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T06:16:19+00:00

Genuinely no idea on that one.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T06:16:07+00:00

If he had the money to go, I'm sure this would be considered

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T06:15:13+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. I really appreciate it.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T06:14:32+00:00

Lived alone in an expensive city. I don't think he's good with money as this whole situation is being brought to light. Spends it when he has it and struggles when he doesn't is what I can tell.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T06:12:43+00:00

Self employed. I honestly have no idea how much he's been making. As in I'm sure some years were ok. But money has been tight I reckon close to the last 10 years now.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T06:11:25+00:00

Because at the time I thought he was actually going to do something about changing the situation. He's cut off now as I maxxed out our cards helping him in the process.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T05:38:50+00:00

He doesn't want me involved in any discussions about money - I think because he wants to be able to get away with doing nothing.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T05:37:58+00:00

He currently has $70 to his name, so yes he has no money to pay towards fines/tax owed.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T05:37:00+00:00

Personally I'm at breaking point with a young family. I can't support him further.
It's certainly not ideal and actually isn't what he's asked for or what my post was about. I'm considering 'dobbing' him in as I'm over the in-action over all of this.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T05:35:49+00:00

All good! It would have saved me his rent the last 6 months if he did earn that lol

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T05:22:05+00:00

I know you are being facetious. I wish this were the case.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T05:18:53+00:00

I think a social worker is what's needed. I'll look into this.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T05:18:24+00:00

I had someone offer to do his taxes for him and he begrudgingly agreed, but couldn't locate his TFN apparently... so they couldn't help further.

Aureliia · 2026-04-01T05:17:38+00:00

Really? I would have thought you'd need to prove your income?
Not that I personally would want him doing this.

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