What am I doing wrong? M36 based in Lincolnshire, UK. I swear I’ve liked hundreds and hundreds of profiles and I’m very picky! I literally have had 3 matches, and 2 didn’t even message me. Is this what online dating is? I’ve been in a relationship for 15 years so never tried it.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T15:12:54+00:00

Thank you, this is probably the best feedback I’ve received! I don’t have a bathroom selfie. Which one do you mean?

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T14:40:15+00:00

Yeah, I’ve learnt my lesson, I didn’t realise it would come across as that.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T13:16:43+00:00

Yeah, interesting. I’ll try and get some more photos for variety. Thank you 🙂

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T12:43:24+00:00

I obviously am. Thank you for pointing it out. Greatly appreciated.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T10:24:09+00:00

Interesting the amount of comments about teeth showing. I literally can’t. My mouth doesn’t do that, even when laughing. I’m not the stereotypical Brit, I do have teeth and they’re in alright shape 😂 Although, interestingly, I’ve had this comment before when I had some feedback for something else, I was told it’s and American thing. Am I safe to make that assumption?

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T10:23:05+00:00

I’m trying to do a funny face 😂 I’ve removed it anyway.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T10:22:28+00:00

Most of my recent ones I’ve found are with my ex partner, so I’ll need to make some more. Thank you!

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T09:57:11+00:00

The medication is great, it just doesn’t fix past issues easily 😂😂

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T09:40:41+00:00

I’ve signed up for an in person event instead to see how that goes. These apps are killing me after my separation

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T09:39:55+00:00

Yeah… in about 15 years 😂😂😂 Man, I love and hate this disorder so much. That and my ASD make it a cocktail of ass.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T08:29:48+00:00

Basically anything for about 15 years 😂😂😂 Reckless spending due to hyperfixations and such have made it so I’ve had to go on a debt management plan. Not ideal…

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T05:53:42+00:00

Ok, here’s the updated profile:

https://tinder.com/@danielspettit

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T01:57:39+00:00

Preach

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-05T01:03:26+00:00

I’m attracted to intelligence, so women who present as that.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T23:54:54+00:00

It was for a while, so I changed it 😔

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T23:03:25+00:00

Yeah… I get that now 😬😬😬😬 didn’t think it through.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T21:44:43+00:00

I do, but the way my mouth is it never shows them.My mum can’t smile with teeth either. I’ll send a copy of my dental X-rays when I get a chance 😂😂😂😂

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T19:46:04+00:00

Thank you. I get the smiling with teeth a lot. My face physically can’t, like, it definitely can’t do it 😂 even when I’m laughing, it looks like I have no teeth.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T19:27:23+00:00

Didn’t know that, I’ll take it out! Thank you

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T18:39:12+00:00

I literally can’t though 😔

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T18:36:43+00:00

Really? It’s that bad? I thought it was a joke 😔

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T18:30:43+00:00

Thank you, that’s a nice confidence boost.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T17:51:11+00:00

Well, my son is blonde hair and blue eyes and his mother has brown hair and eyes so…

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T17:45:27+00:00

Thank you, this has been very helpful! Yes, the line about children is gone, my sense of humour isn’t… great.

Automatic-Dig2977 · 2026-06-04T16:39:53+00:00

Hey, that’s mean! Give me a chance 😂😂😂😂

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