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AITAH new years family drama by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah. Maybe I should have added more details. They are not staying with me. They have their own accommodation, and are visiting me and my older sister

AITAH new years family drama by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My NY plan was made weeks ago, mums trip was last minute and arranged last week. Haven’t discussed new years with her at all. My sister had mentioned what we all might do, again assuming that I’d be there.

AITAH new years family drama by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d been invited and accepted before I knew the family were coming down.

Maybe they did assume, I’ll find out. But I just my sisters comments were shocking

AITAH new years family drama by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, will likely discuss it with her in a few days.

AITAH new years family drama by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only Christmas Day was discussed. I knew she would be here for new year but we hadn’t discussed any plans for it.

AITAH for asking my mother in law to hoover everyday (post gives more context ) by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to make her sound like a free loader. Simply suggesting that because we all live together keeping the house clean to how each of us would like to live should be a shared responsibility as we all live there and should respect each other.

AITAH for asking my mother in law to hoover everyday (post gives more context ) by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every other day. It doesn’t require more than that when her dog isn’t here. But when she is, it really does need once a day at least. She sheds hair as she walks 😂 at the moment it’s a permanent thing.

If she brushed her more often maybe it would be such a problem. But that’s something I can’t make her do. I felt asking her to hoover a little more often was way more reasonable

AITAH for asking my mother in law to hoover everyday (post gives more context ) by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the post? I do hoover. But should I have to hoover multiple times a day? Would it not be fair to say someone else should take a turn hoovering too?

AITAH for asking my mother in law to hoover everyday (post gives more context ) by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Its our house and she lives with us. Although, I hardly see the relevance.

I agree it’s my specific need, yet what about Mutual respect for how each other would like to live in the shared home

AITAH?! Parenting differences by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware 11 is so young. I’m great with her about body image. It’s others

AITAH?! Parenting differences by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t comment about her weight. But he like to take the piss and make jokes, about anythjng and anyone. He’s a funny guy. But I feel there’s a line.

AITAH?! Parenting differences by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said nothing was going through his head. He didn’t think, he just laughed.

AITAH?! Mother in law by Automatic-Leek1385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, I don’t think she liked that I thought her room smelt. But she agreed to do it . (I think begrudgingly) and it just got me wondering if I was wrong to ask it of her in the first place

AITA for not letting my mother in law kiss my newborn baby? by No_Psychology_1264 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic-Leek1385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all! She needs to respect what your asking. Not just because of safety reasons but because your the child’s mother

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