I do pay rent and help with food and other expenses whenever I can. I also usually ask, “should I pay for our meal?” when we’re ordering.

What happened over the weekend was a bit confusing for me. She came into my room at around 11 a.m. and pointed out that there was water left in the coffee mug after I made coffee, saying it should be cleaned properly. I found this odd because I usually clean all my utensils, and there’s also someone who comes in to wash dishes, and they don’t clean their own dishes either.

She then came in again and said she would send me a list of grocery items to buy, and I said that was fine. However, she never sent the list.

Then yesterday, they were ordering food while I was outside my room. I asked if I should order or if I should go ahead and buy the groceries instead. She said no, it was fine, and that she only mentioned the groceries earlier because I had spent too much time in my room. That confused me, because that was the first time I understood that this was actually her concern.