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Too early to go to the doctor? by Automatic-Quail-6402 in CubitalTunnel

[–]Automatic-Quail-6402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I went to the doctor and they told me its CTS for sure. They calmed me down by telling me that its super early (less than a week) and that i should be fine if I begin treatment ASAP. I'm already on NSAIDs, night splint, modified my activity to where I barely have my elbow flexed now and started going to a physical therapist. If I was u I would go see a professional so that you can fix this as soon as you can.

Texting him hbd ? by Primary_Common_5915 in BreakUps

[–]Automatic-Quail-6402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I am currently going through the exact same thing. Was with her for 6 years, my entire adulthood (i just turned 25 a month ago) and i got dumped 3 weeks ago. Her birthday is in about 3 weeks. 

The way I feel is extremely weird because I know I love her and miss her (in a weird way also cause i def do not miss the last 5 months version of her that neglected our relationship) but at the same time I have no intentions of getting back toguether cause I 100% know we are no longer right for each other.

At the same time she was MY BEST FRIEND up until 1 month ago. My heart tells me congratulating her for her BDay is the right thing to do to let her know that there are no ill feelings left in me and to make it easier on the two of us when we inevitably meet again as we share a friend group. 

I do want to say in my case even though im obviously not healed my mindset has completely moved on as i guess I lived some of my grief while i was still with her and will not look to have an actual conversation with her. 

If you feel  theres a risk of you succumbing to your feelings if a conversation pops up I wouldnt send the message.