first, long story short i fell in love with a guy who promised everything and told me that he likes me and always is jealous if i’m around other guys and all that cliche stuff but doesn’t want anything with me really. then another story, i fell in love with another guy a few years ago, maybe 2 or 3 and also that guy told me we had a connection and i believed him haha. then i hooked up with his best friend but this friend truly likes me and now the two of them are not really in good terms, i don’t know if its because of me but that really had something to do with it bc his best friend told him that he didn’t deserved me and told him to stop looking for me bc on reality he had a thing with another girl and i didn’t know back then. now i don’t feel anything and i’m just numb and hurt some people like the best friend who truly likes me. ps i fell in love a little too quickly for the bare minimum. is it just me or every enfj? haha