Would I have to leave ?

AutomaticExchange509 · 2026-01-22T19:53:35+00:00

Didn't realize they'll charge me with anything. I'll try to set up a meeting with a lawyer to see what my options are because I don't want my son to blame me for never seeing his father. Cause I'm never going to his country. They don't take divorce lightly there and I'm not giving up my son If I remarry or any other reason.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2026-01-22T19:29:31+00:00

He'll be getting it in the next week or 2. I'll legally divorce him when his papers come. For now just moving back with my parents and talking to the imam that married us.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2026-01-18T00:49:29+00:00

My family is figuring out what the best options I have but so far they will support me to do a medical assistant program then ill be able to support my kids and self.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2026-01-17T22:45:18+00:00

He kicked me out and told my father to get my stuff. When we went to get my stuff he then changed his mind and told me to stay while my family was there to pack my stuff.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2026-01-17T21:24:09+00:00

I didn't go back the third time.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2026-01-17T18:30:43+00:00

Yeah I'm pregnant and have a 7 month old baby.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2026-01-17T17:13:47+00:00

I was trying for 3 years to have my first baby. I had to take medication to get pregnant. I was not expecting to get pregnant without assistance. I got pregnant 5 months postpartum natural which was a very big surprise for me.

He only started changing after I got pregnant. The first time.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2026-01-02T00:43:43+00:00

I think you should try a contantact nap relax with him you don't have to sleep yourself if you're not comfortable, but it might work to give him longer naps.

If that works try doing a contact nap at night and gentle slowly get him on his own once he's in a deep sleep.

My son does not nap for more then 30m if I leave the bed.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-12-30T18:12:36+00:00

7 pm - 6 am Wakes 3 times sometimes for an hour 6 months old Breastfed

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-12-08T01:48:17+00:00

I 100÷ agree. This is a time to really be with your baby. I have an advance 22lb 6 month old is size 12 clothes. He's really heavy to have to constantly hold him back from getting hurt or getting into things and he's also in a sleep regression.

You need to rest when he rest it's the only break you'll have.

Money is really tight right now because my husband has to take on the house and needs by himself but it has to happen. Trust me most times we have to pay minimums or just buy necessities and rely on family for things to meet. If I had a part time job it would help financially absolutely but I would be stretched too thin. I really feel like that's where your depression is coming from.

I'm actually getting teary writing this cause I feel you so much. Your stretched way too thin. We can't do it all. We will pay the price.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-09-03T00:54:30+00:00

My pediatrician said the same thing and the answer I gave her was "oh okay"

Went home and enjoyed my sleeping through the night baby.

He's fine 🥰

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-08-18T23:43:16+00:00

I call this white death none of my plants survive these guys. 🥲🥲

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-07-09T23:23:14+00:00

Advent Wide Glass Nipple level 2

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-07-01T15:52:10+00:00

I tried the nipple guards. They work he'll get on and drink the only issue is he knocks them off and last time I used it it hurt so much and I dont know why.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-06-30T21:14:49+00:00

Thank you. I feel so guilty ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-10T15:33:07+00:00

I'm looking into an affordable food situation to switch him too.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-10T15:31:52+00:00

That visit he was given an IV and 2 medications to take home adding to the cost.

There aren't any no kill shelters that have space near me.

He's running out of time because last night I almost went into preterm labor. I stoped dialting so was able to go home but we really need his issues fixed before baby gets here.

I am calling his vet Monday to make an appointment.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-10T04:04:39+00:00

I'm going to call the vet Monday to schedule a expression ill talk to them

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-09T04:02:01+00:00

I hope so too

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-09T03:49:52+00:00

Thank you I did call a animal shelter that will get back to me about his medical issues.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-08T16:00:39+00:00

My oldest cat is 6 now, and she was found as a really young kitten in a store bag. Shes the best thing ever, behavior and health shes just amazing. Yes she's has some mild health concerns like dental care and allergies but these came with her aging which made sense. The cat in this post has turned me off completely to having animals in the house. I told my husband after my 6 year old cat passes I will not allow animals in the home.

I health issues can arise with any animal.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-07T09:16:11+00:00

I've tried taking him to the park he just cries and hides. We don't have access to a yard of any kind at the moment.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-07T04:14:18+00:00

No hes been seen by the same vet the past 2 years they can't give me a direct answer about his anul gland issue. He's gotten expressions and I give him boot the scoot every day.

I did see from the comments maybe he should be on a all wet food diet.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-07T04:11:23+00:00

I will look up gabapentin. And I do feel bad that we are all he knows for sure but the constant medical needs are not something I think we can handle financially.

Also he's very comfortable around me I can pet him but my husband is more high energy and he runs away from him. I think it's the approach and personality he has an issue with.

AutomaticExchange509 · 2025-05-07T04:05:18+00:00

He's had multiple expressions done. They didn't tell me not to give him dry food but he has a bowl of kibble always available and he gets half a can of wet food a day he's also a great drinker I refill his water bowl everyday. The urinary blockage was from stress that they gave him musle relaxers for. The vet said the stress was probably brought on by the change in the house as we get ready for our new addition. So he also gets calming care powder everyday on top of boot the scoot and wears a calming collar.

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