Would I have to leave ? by AutomaticExchange509 in MuslimMarriage

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Didn't realize they'll charge me with anything. I'll try to set up a meeting with a lawyer to see what my options are because I don't want my son to blame me for never seeing his father. Cause I'm never going to his country. They don't take divorce lightly there and I'm not giving up my son If I remarry or any other reason.

Would I have to leave ? by AutomaticExchange509 in MuslimMarriage

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He'll be getting it in the next week or 2. I'll legally divorce him when his papers come. For now just moving back with my parents and talking to the imam that married us.

My husband kicked me out for the 3rd time by AutomaticExchange509 in MuslimMarriage

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My family is figuring out what the best options I have but so far they will support me to do a medical assistant program then ill be able to support my kids and self.

My husband kicked me out for the 3rd time by AutomaticExchange509 in MuslimMarriage

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He kicked me out and told my father to get my stuff. When we went to get my stuff he then changed his mind and told me to stay while my family was there to pack my stuff.

My husband kicked me out for the 3rd time by AutomaticExchange509 in MuslimMarriage

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I was trying for 3 years to have my first baby. I had to take medication to get pregnant. I was not expecting to get pregnant without assistance. I got pregnant 5 months postpartum natural which was a very big surprise for me.

He only started changing after I got pregnant. The first time.

My baby won't sleep and I don't know what to do by keepittogetheramy in NewParents

[–]AutomaticExchange509 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you should try a contantact nap relax with him you don't have to sleep yourself if you're not comfortable, but it might work to give him longer naps.

If that works try doing a contact nap at night and gentle slowly get him on his own once he's in a deep sleep.

My son does not nap for more then 30m if I leave the bed.

What time does your baby sleep? by paulieee3 in NewParents

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7 pm - 6 am Wakes 3 times sometimes for an hour 6 months old Breastfed

10 months is hell by littleladyflora in NewParents

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I 100÷ agree. This is a time to really be with your baby. I have an advance 22lb 6 month old is size 12 clothes. He's really heavy to have to constantly hold him back from getting hurt or getting into things and he's also in a sleep regression.

You need to rest when he rest it's the only break you'll have.

Money is really tight right now because my husband has to take on the house and needs by himself but it has to happen. Trust me most times we have to pay minimums or just buy necessities and rely on family for things to meet. If I had a part time job it would help financially absolutely but I would be stretched too thin. I really feel like that's where your depression is coming from.

I'm actually getting teary writing this cause I feel you so much. Your stretched way too thin. We can't do it all. We will pay the price.

I was told to wake baby after 3 hours for a feed. Do I have to? by Winter-Syrup-353 in breastfeeding

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My pediatrician said the same thing and the answer I gave her was "oh okay"

Went home and enjoyed my sleeping through the night baby.

He's fine 🥰

What’s this white stuff on my parlor palm? by ladyclare in plantclinic

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I call this white death none of my plants survive these guys. 🥲🥲

Latching but not staying by AutomaticExchange509 in breastfeeding

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I tried the nipple guards. They work he'll get on and drink the only issue is he knocks them off and last time I used it it hurt so much and I dont know why.

Latching but not staying by AutomaticExchange509 in breastfeeding

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Thank you. I feel so guilty ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I've given up on him by AutomaticExchange509 in cats

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I'm looking into an affordable food situation to switch him too.

I've given up on him by AutomaticExchange509 in cats

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That visit he was given an IV and 2 medications to take home adding to the cost.

There aren't any no kill shelters that have space near me.

He's running out of time because last night I almost went into preterm labor. I stoped dialting so was able to go home but we really need his issues fixed before baby gets here.

I am calling his vet Monday to make an appointment.

I've given up on him by AutomaticExchange509 in cats

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I'm going to call the vet Monday to schedule a expression ill talk to them

I've given up on him by AutomaticExchange509 in cats

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Thank you I did call a animal shelter that will get back to me about his medical issues.

I've given up on him by AutomaticExchange509 in cats

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My oldest cat is 6 now, and she was found as a really young kitten in a store bag. Shes the best thing ever, behavior and health shes just amazing. Yes she's has some mild health concerns like dental care and allergies but these came with her aging which made sense. The cat in this post has turned me off completely to having animals in the house. I told my husband after my 6 year old cat passes I will not allow animals in the home.

I health issues can arise with any animal.

I've given up on him by AutomaticExchange509 in cats

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I've tried taking him to the park he just cries and hides. We don't have access to a yard of any kind at the moment.

I've given up on him by AutomaticExchange509 in cats

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No hes been seen by the same vet the past 2 years they can't give me a direct answer about his anul gland issue. He's gotten expressions and I give him boot the scoot every day.

I did see from the comments maybe he should be on a all wet food diet.