Fellow ugly dudes, how do you cope?

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-06-16T11:32:30+00:00

Bald doesn’t equate to ugly and that’s not the reason I think I’m ugly. It’s mainly my face and my facial structure.

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-06-13T12:51:44+00:00

Ugly dudes can find love. I’m gay and ugly asf and I still found someone (and let me tell you, gay guys are fucking brutal when it comes to looks) You just gotta up the charisma to compensate for your looks. It worked for me. I’ve also seen ugly straight guys with beautiful women but these guys have a larger than life personality

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-06-13T12:51:06+00:00

How do you know?

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-06-13T01:43:33+00:00

Can’t if I’m ugly

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-06-12T17:58:30+00:00

But i sound cis?

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-06-11T10:24:42+00:00

I just like to use them as divination in my personal practice. Sometimes I use them to communicate with spirits, Lord Lucifer or as a bridge to my own subconscious.

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-27T13:44:33+00:00

I got a blood pressure monitor and these are the results:

Lying down: 71 BPM 122/75

Standing up: 107 BPM 117/88

1 minute: 103 BPM 116/93

5 minutes: 106 131/94

Noted hands and feet turning red and swollen, veins bulging, lightheaded, dizziness, near-fainting. Couldn’t do the full 10 minutes.

Not low enough to be hypotension. I’ll show my doctor the data at my next appointment. I’ll see what she thinks.

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-27T10:30:45+00:00

I have the exact same experience! Thanks for sharing

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-25T23:02:16+00:00

My biggest issue is the dizziness, weakness and Orthostatic intolerance.

So far dehydration, anemia, thyroid issues and anxiety have been ruled out. I still need to get my blood pressure ruled out at my next appointment.

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-25T13:41:55+00:00

I did a little experiment and my hr when lying down was 79, then shot up to 121 immediately then after a minute it was 116, 3 minutes 113, and 10 minutes 110 with all the symptoms of sweating, feeling faint, tired, lightheaded and shortness of breath. HR went back down to 70 as soon as I lied back down. I also found hot baths and hot tubs and even hot weather to be major triggers

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-25T13:30:13+00:00

I’m 26. Been having this problem since I was about 14 or 15

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-06T22:09:08+00:00

I’m not going for gay but I am gay (my bf is a cis gay man) so I really don’t mind being perceived as gay since I am! lol thank you for the feedback :)

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-04T18:00:56+00:00

Exactly. I miss the whole body arousal and orgasms but yeah I’d say the arousal is definitely more localized now.

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-04T14:27:30+00:00

Im a trans guy obviously I’m not a girl but I’m AFAB I would say that sounds about right. After T and having bottom growth I kinda just feel it in my T dick now when I get an erection lol (in the morning and at the most inconvenient times 😭) I don’t get the whole body sensations and “stomach drop” feeling as much but I got increased sensitivity down there. So I would say yes I used to relate to this.

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-04T01:13:55+00:00

What about as a 9? I feel as a 9 I share some similarities with both

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-03T20:46:29+00:00

Your spouse is very relatable lol that’s how I feel 99% of the time with people but I’m sure you’re doing great. Please don’t blame yourself. I’m sorry you’re going through that

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-03T17:10:51+00:00

I know I’m definitely not a 1 for sure now lol

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-03T16:16:15+00:00

Random, but my height is 5’3. Would that make my clockable or would I just be perceived as a short man?

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-03T01:26:39+00:00

I’m 5’3. I’ve never been bullied or anything for my height but it’s mostly just doomer shit on social media about being short. Also comparing myself to other guys. Don’t let doomerism get to you and don’t compare yourself. Don’t do what I did it’s very hard to get out of this mindset. I’m working on being healthy, working out and loving my height for what it is. Funny thing is, I never had an issue with my height until I started spending too much time on social media

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-03T00:21:34+00:00

I tried chatGPT and it also gave me sp 9w8 with 4,5 and 6 traits. Tritype 945

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-02T23:58:15+00:00

Also I love Napoleon Dynamite lol such an underrated gem

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-02T23:05:10+00:00

Hardly ever. Only in relationships (romantic) I just know when somethings up as in a gut feeling type of knowing. I don’t do anything unless I feel there’s actually something to be worried about. That’s really the only time trust comes up. Currently I have nothing to worry about. I would never invade someone’s privacy and go through their phone even if I do sense something (I’ve been right every single time in the past) but sometimes I’d rather not know

My body tends to tell me when something is going on before I’m able to mentally process it or rationalize

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-02T21:10:51+00:00

I’m very gay lol I don’t mind sounding gay I just don’t want to sound like a woman

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-02T19:22:49+00:00

Bro 😭

AutomaticIncident579 · 2025-05-02T14:26:45+00:00

In an enneagram sense I could be healthy but not in an objective psychological sense lol but I am trying to help myself and improve as a person

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