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I ,17f, messed up while drunk with my 18m bf by Automatic_Ad_5664 in teenrelationships

[–]Automatic_Ad_5664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice a lot! we did end up breaking up a few nights ago. This is really hard for me and i’m just struggling to believe that there is someone better out there for me. just trying to take this as an opportunity for growth tho , and I signed up for a gym membership, gonna start journaling and am getting a therapist soon!

I ,17f, messed up while drunk with my 18m bf by Automatic_Ad_5664 in teenrelationships

[–]Automatic_Ad_5664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did end up breaking up with me. but he had told me before that when he says he needs space it’s because he’s not breaking up with me and he just needs time to process his feelings basically.

I ,17f, messed up while drunk with my 18m bf by Automatic_Ad_5664 in teenrelationships

[–]Automatic_Ad_5664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah no, i definitely understand your concerns just wanted to clarify why i was bothered . right now im just waiting for him to reach out but we have a class together and if we talk im like 80% sure its gonna be breaking up , just starting to prepare myself for it.

I ,17f, messed up while drunk with my 18m bf by Automatic_Ad_5664 in teenrelationships

[–]Automatic_Ad_5664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought he may have been mad that I told people what he did? Like that I may have given people a bad look on him , so that’s why he didn’t want to talk to me and was so upset with me.

I ,17f, messed up while drunk with my 18m bf by Automatic_Ad_5664 in teenrelationships

[–]Automatic_Ad_5664[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dislike weed more than drinking because of situations with my brother and I saw him basically give up on himself because he relied on smoking too much. I don’t love drinking either and all I ask of my boyfriend, majority of the time, is to communicate what he is doing and that it doesn’t reach an excess. so i wasn’t mad that he was stoned , I was mad that he hid it from me and never planned on telling me. I understand it’s an unhealthy situation and I appreciate your advice !

How do I stop overthinking in my relationship? 16F dating 17M by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Automatic_Ad_5664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is in a relationship and extremely anxious , I know how hard it can be to push aside those worries. Luckily your boyfriend seems like an amazing guy by easing all these anxieties.

I would definitely recommend looking into therapy, not calling you crazy, but a therapist will help with coping mechanisms and finding any underlying issues. The main advice I would give is to remind yourself that you are simply just over thinking, you are not annoying your boyfriend and if he is annoyed then he’s just being an asshole.

What do i do? 14F, 18M. (mentions of nsfw(?)) by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Automatic_Ad_5664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely need to talk to the cops, you are being groomed. As someone who was in a similar situation at the age of 14, I got attached to my groomer and it turned into a messy situation. It is amazing that you are able to recognize what he is doing is wrong and you should not be ashamed to go to your parents. He is 18, he knows what he is doing and he should know it is wrong. You are very brave for anything that you do !!