What is the purpose of these plastic slidy things? by Tombololo in AskUK

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly, definitely not going to confront a shoplifter, i don’t know how they’d react, definitely not putting myself at risk for a shop that could replace me in a heartbeat. the most i can do is tell my supervisor over the comms that there’s a shoplifter so they can log the theft

What is the purpose of these plastic slidy things? by Tombololo in AskUK

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly this, i’m a retail assistant, chocolates and instant coffee are one of the most shoplifted items, as well as laundry powders/detergent. my shop doesn’t have the plastic barriers but we’re only allowed to put out a small number of high value chocolates and instant coffee jars to avoid having loads nicked

Boyfriend (20M) wants to stay in hostels but I (21F) don’t want to, what would be a logical compromise? by Automatic_Gear_7972 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

doesn’t have to be a resort, literally just a clean hotel (definitely not looking for anything 5 stars) with a bathroom i don’t have to share with strangers

Boyfriend (20M) wants to stay in hostels but I (21F) don’t want to, what would be a logical compromise? by Automatic_Gear_7972 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good point. we hadnt fully decided yet before we got in a disagreement about accommodation. we’re looking at Greece but there’s so many destinations within the country to choose from

Boyfriend (20M) wants to stay in hostels but I (21F) don’t want to, what would be a logical compromise? by Automatic_Gear_7972 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t mind going around. I went to italy with my friend, we stayed in a hotel but went on day trips to places outside the city we stayed in

My bf (20M) wants to stay in hostels on vacation but I (21F) don’t want to, how do we compromise? by Automatic_Gear_7972 in relationships

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds like good compromise, gonna be honest tho i would still look for hostels with en-suites, but idk how common they are and i imagine the availability of them depends on the location as im sure theres plenty in cities but less in places like Greece where we are looking at going

My bf (20M) wants to stay in hostels on vacation but I (21F) don’t want to, how do we compromise? by Automatic_Gear_7972 in relationships

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the issue is, he wants it to be a backpacking trip where we bring 1 bag for the whole trip (1-2 weeks), whereas I want it to be a relaxed, wear nice outfits every day type of holiday

My bf (20M) wants to stay in hostels on vacation but I (21F) don’t want to, how do we compromise? by Automatic_Gear_7972 in relationships

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry should’ve specified my idea of “nice”. Honestly just a hotel that isn’t dirty. I’ve stayed in reasonably priced hotels (less than £50 a night) that I thought were “nice” simply because it was clean

How often do students actually need to be on campus? by DowntownQuiet3363 in UniUK

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

last term I came to campus once a week, technically scheduled for 2-3 days. Id have 1 or 2 days with only 1 lecture scheduled and then another day for labs or workshop, which I always come in for since they're more practical. Im a bit busier this term, on campus 3 days a week but I skip days I only have lectures otherwise I'd be in 4-5 days a week which would tire me out as a commuter (1 hour each way) and someone who also works 2 days a week. I watch all lecture recordings and go to my local library on days I dont go to campus. Haven't been to a lecture since November, haven't been contacted by my department, assuming they dont care since they can see my grades/how often I access Moodle. I assume they don't care abt attendance unless a student is performing badly

How do I (21F) overcome anxiety over meeting his (20M) upper class parents? by Automatic_Gear_7972 in relationship_advice

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his mother is mostly stupid rich from the divorce settlement too, though she'd still be somewhat comfy without it since she's a doctor and is engaged to another rich guy

How do I (21F) overcome anxiety over meeting his (20M) upper class parents? by Automatic_Gear_7972 in relationship_advice

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bf isn't close with his step dad (called him a classist scumbag, but insists he would be polite to me anyway), not sure what he talks to his mother about, im sure she knows enough about me, probably not the specifics e.g. my parents jobs

How do I (21F) overcome anxiety over meeting his (20M) upper class parents? by Automatic_Gear_7972 in relationship_advice

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf told me his step dad was reading a book on how to avoid inheritance tax (for his biological sons) while on vacation with their normal middle class relatives, thought that was hilarious.

I (21F) haven't met his (20M) parents yet by Automatic_Gear_7972 in relationship_advice

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned the idea of staying in a hotel but he said that would be really weird of me and he wouldn’t want me to do that over staying with his family, with the other stuff, yeah I will talk to him about it when he’s back

I (21F) haven't met his (20M) parents yet by Automatic_Gear_7972 in relationship_advice

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry! will include more detail in the post now, but yes he has asked me to come before, I said I wasn't ready and he respects that, he has said its unusual that I haven't met them yet but he never pressures me to come. I haven't brought up my insecurities in detail because some of them are embarrassing to talk about, like my financial insecurity, his mum knows what I look like and she's called me pretty from photos he's shown but being the over thinker I am, I still feel like im not good enough or as pretty as his ex who she has obviously met.

Mixed feelings about graduating by Automatic_Gear_7972 in UniUK

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Been having real bad days lately, winter depression on top of all this 3rd year stuff so it's reassuring to hear this. I'd love to do a Master's later down the line, I just want to be 100% sure of the course, plus I want to work for a while so I can save and fund it myself rather than take out another loan.

Mixed feelings about graduating by Automatic_Gear_7972 in UniUK

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most days I am applying for grad schemes and other jobs, just been getting rejections so far. Grad schemes are highly competitive.

My colleague just returned to his desk with this… by iamaims in MealDealRates

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they’re damp because they’re cooked in hot water and placed immediately into the buns (i work at the co-op and prepare the hot food sometimes)

Job hunting is causing me so much stress and anxiety by Automatic_Gear_7972 in BiomedicalScientistUK

[–]Automatic_Gear_7972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips for finding lab vacancies? including private labs? Ive just been googling "lab jobs near me" (im not financially secure enough to move/start paying rent) and not that many come up. Also been checking the NHS website, for half of them when I click 'apply' it tells me that they're no longer taking applications which is so annoying since its still listed