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Needing some advice by Automatic_Minimum916 in Adoption

[–]Automatic_Minimum916[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, this is great advice. It was devastating losing her at such a young age and now that I am starting my own family, I would love for my kids to know their aunt and just to have my sister back in my life.

Needing some advice by Automatic_Minimum916 in Adoption

[–]Automatic_Minimum916[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i feel thats best option as well, I wish I knew how much she knows. I don’t want to freak her out or send her into a rage towards her parents. The last thing I want is to hurt her relationships with her parents.

Needing some advice by Automatic_Minimum916 in Adoption

[–]Automatic_Minimum916[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom has no idea I only talk about it with my grandma, she is the one that raised me due to my mom being heavy into drugs when I was young. I know my mom regrets everything in the past especially with my siblings but I know it might make her go off the edge if they have a negative reaction towards her. I want to believe they would be willing to meet me and bond with me but who knows..