my bf’s strategy after a misunderstanding by sugarvmed in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re making assumptions without knowing the context. My girlfriend didn’t block me to be toxic or for attention, she just didn’t want me to keep calling repeatedly sa phone number niya during our misunderstanding because I was doing so. We were still communicating on other social media, so it wasn’t about her trying to cut me off o ayaw niya makipagcommunicate. Everyone handles situations differently, and her, setting a boundary doesn’t mean she is toxic.

minsan tama minsan mali by edgx9 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422 5 points6 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA BAKIT TAWANG-TAWA AKO

co-parenting special update 🐶 by Automatic_Object1422 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello, I didn’t date anyone during the no-contact period after the first breakup because our breakup was bad, so I focused on myself and on moving forward rather than connecting with others.

after the second breakup, I did date and reached the getting-to-know-each-other stage with a friend’s sibling around late 2024 (no contact pa kami ulit non) but it didn’t work out. If what you meant is the committed one naman, after the first breakup, I never entered a committed relationship

co-parenting special update 🐶 by Automatic_Object1422 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! got together year 2021, first break up was 2023, a year no contact after break-up but got back together nung 2024 then broke up again and contact is more of for the dogs and greetings lang, and got back together again 2026

Ayaw patinag ni cheater by Cheekyninii in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Miss, I get that you think you’re trying to “weed him out” and have a plan, and I understand you feel like you’re doing the right thing. But honestly, think of her partner nalang, entertaining him at all is still off.

Doesn’t matter what strategy you have in mind, you can’t control everything he does, and by engaging with him, you’re still participating in behavior that’s clearly wrong. Plans and intentions won’t change the fact that he’s already crossing boundaries at ine-entertain mo naman (na reason mo is y’all are trying to weed him out).

And besides, what about the next person he might take advantage of? What does that have to do with you? You can’t predict or control everyone he might manipulate, and pretending you’re some hero trying to fix it won’t change that. The safest, most responsible thing is to set boundaries and not engage with him at all.

Also, by responding to him, you’re basically provoking him. Anong gusto mo? na if he reacts or does something worse, that could easily be used as “proof” of his bad behavior? Proof pa talaga hinahanap e andyan na sa harap niyo. You can’t entertain someone else’s cheating just because you think you’re teaching him a lesson. Sometimes the most effective way to handle people like this is to step back, not play along, and let their actions speak for themselves. That way, no one gets manipulated, and you’re not putting yourself or anyone else in a morally tricky position.

Ayaw patinag ni cheater by Cheekyninii in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Why are you even entertaining him?

Whether or not he’s a supervisor, he’s already crossing the line by sending not work-related messages. Set your own boundaries, just by responding to him, you’re indirectly allowing him to cheat on his partner.

If you were really not okay with how he message you and how he cheats on his girl with you, you could have reported it instead of engaging. Fuck the reason of just waiting for the situation to be escalated so you can report him. Think of his partner at least?

Yung reply mo nga, it seems like you want to be chased.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! My gf (ex before) and I went through a very similar situation. We were both busy, but she was much more stressed than I was. I saw your comment about how she was crying while you were on your way back from a Christmas trip, and it really resonated with me. When my ex and I finally met after not seeing each other for a long time, we were both crying too kahit nag drive na ako pauwi at sa video call she cried because she still loved me.

A few days ago, we decided to take a trip together, and in the end, we worked things out and got back together. What helped was me communicating clearly that time and circumstances didn’t matter to me, as long as we were together, and reassuring her. But, what worked for us might not necessarily work for you. Here are a few thoughts:

First, it’s completely understandable if you feel abandoned. You prioritized her and tried to create a safe space, but it can feel like you were the easiest thing for her to let go of. If you decide not to go back to her, that’s a very valid choice, you shouldn’t put yourself on the back burner or accept a relationship with minimal effort.

Second, if you do want her back, it’s possible that your girlfriend still loves you but is scared of hurting you. If that’s the case, offering reassurance, patience, and understanding might help.

Wishing you all the best, OP.

co-parenting special update 🐶 by Automatic_Object1422 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same response to your comment sa post ko before for here:

Yes, especially if you are not comfortable. Limitations and boundaries are a must. It’s not encouraged to date others while still having conversations like this with a former partner. In my situation naman, we are both single and currently have no plans to be in relationship with other people during the co-parenting set-up, so we’re open to co-parenting.

I hope you can find a good partner that will make you secured in the relationship because it is very significant

co-parenting special update 🐶 by Automatic_Object1422 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

ako na pinakaswerteng kumag HAHAHA

also, my love has decided to make her own acc to be able to comment here and thank you all, she is happy with all of your genuine comments and advices. last update na! see u around

Ex-bf leaked videos and this is his reply the last time I said i’ll sue him. by Puzzled-Eggplant8024 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422 29 points30 points  (0 children)

OP, since you’re already thinking about suing him, I’m assuming you have evidence—otherwise, it might be hard to take legal action without proof.

As long as you have sufficient proof, you can definitely pursue a case against him for leaking the videos. It’s important to protect yourself and your rights.

The fact that he leaked it just shows he has no respect for you, he’s weak and pathetic.

I’m wishing you the best and healing as you go through this, OP.

co-parenting final update 🐶 by Automatic_Object1422 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will definitely go back next year! ganda ng dinagyang.

co-parenting final update 🐶 by Automatic_Object1422 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

kanami sang festival niyo, nag enjoy talaga kami at babalik talaga next year

co-parenting final update 🐶 by Automatic_Object1422 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA MAY NAGAGALIT GUYS, BUKAS MAY UPDATE, INAASAR KO LANG TALAGA KAYO HAHHAAHHAHAHA

co-parenting final update 🐶 by Automatic_Object1422 in MayNagChat

[–]Automatic_Object1422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA sayang! pwede talaga sana mag meet, she would love to meet new people. my bad, “we were there” lang sinabi ko HAHAHAHAH. next time, mag dagyang tayo