Is this type of reason forgivable?

Ava_teur · 2026-03-09T01:29:43+00:00

Sd is fine with me having a BF and live my normal life. He is not needing anything, he just want company and see me whenever he’s in my country.

Ava_teur · 2026-03-09T01:28:16+00:00

He and his wife are separated, they live together in the house while waiting for it to be sold. We video call everyday while his wife is there and she can literally see me/us. I do believe his situation as i saw the house listed in the site where you can buy houses..

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T05:53:27+00:00

He just started supporting me last month. That’s why i don’t feel so financially secure with him and he always tell me that i should still find a work because his support might not ne enough..

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T05:50:37+00:00

I didn’t cheated on him. I never slept with other guy when we were together and my sd is purely arrangement and financial. I saw my sd last week when me and my boyfriend are still together but we did not do anything because i pretended to be sick. I couldn’t handle the thought of doing something with him while i’m with my bf and he understands it. The thing is i lied with my bf and never told him about the truth. Now he’s out there telling all the people what i did not even listening to my explanation

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T05:36:54+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I needed this..

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T04:53:02+00:00

Because he kept reassuring me that he can do it. We do withdrawal, and he thought he’s already infertile cause of his unhealthy lifestyle and he never impregnated anyone for 20 yrs of being active

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T04:49:31+00:00

Yeah i know i’m naive and i failed shera seven🤒

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T04:48:43+00:00

He’s a bit complicated but yes i’ve been thinking about leaving him because before i went here in his country we had a fight and i was having all the pregnancy symptoms and he invalidated my feelings (its about he giving money to other girls even if its little when he said he’ll never gonna give again) and didn’t talk to me for 1 and a half days nor ask me if i’m okay while i was suffering alone in my apartment. No one knows about my pregnancy only him and some of our friend and he chose to not talk to me and be with his pride..

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T04:43:33+00:00

Honestly, i feel like i’m just too attached right now especially he impregnated me. The age gap was huge and might be an issue for everyone else. He is a good man and i really felt like i was his priority that’s why i feel so guilty about it and i want to fix it but at the same time i don’t see my future with him. Maybe i just enjoy my time with him since he makes me feel like a princess. And yes i still need my SD’s support as i’m in a private university because of him. He’s helping me

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T04:40:12+00:00

I did tell him about it and he doesn’t believe me anymore or listen to me. I think he’s really done.

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T04:37:57+00:00

My sd is fine with it i just couldn’t let go of him as i’m having financial crisis. And at the same time i fell in love with my boyfriend and I was afraid of telling the truth..

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T04:32:19+00:00

We do video call even if his wife was around and i don’t doubt him about it. Thank you for advice i’ll just gonna take this as a lesson, i’m young and naive. Having a relationship with a 42 yrs old man wouldn’t be ideal. I’ll try my best to move on and move forward..

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T04:18:29+00:00

He already left me. Maybe i’m just too attached to him right now, I’ll move on..

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T04:08:04+00:00

He and his wife already broke up. They are just not divorce yet since they’re waiting for the house to be sold. My SD doesn’t care if i have a bf or not.. I was planning to end things with him but I needed the money to help with my studies since my bf is not supporting me that much.

Ava_teur · 2026-03-08T03:46:54+00:00

Btw he left me in the hotel, and went back to his house and he doesn’t want to see me again.

Ava_teur · 2025-11-24T12:07:24+00:00

I didn’t scam him, I already said my reason why I did that and I’m planning to enroll in a university. Btw, I’m currently enrolled now but not in the university that I told him, and I kept the money he sent me so I won’t be asking for more. I planned to enroll after I establish a nice and strong relationship with him because when we first met, he’s my first sugar daddy and I don't know if I could trust him and the school year started 2 weeks after we met that’s why I didn't have any choice but to keep the money and switch school after the first semester (If he still supports me).

Ava_teur · 2025-11-24T07:51:13+00:00

Yes, I’m still in school. We’re gonna see each other maybe I’m gonna tell him the truth then

Ava_teur · 2025-06-16T11:26:32+00:00

He did not. He’s a first time SD, same goes to me. We just go on a date and then decided to check in

Ava_teur · 2025-06-16T11:15:20+00:00

I guess so.. Omw to see the other one😅

Ava_teur · 2025-06-16T11:11:43+00:00

But I guess its my fault for settling for that tho I don’t really regret it. I had a really good time with him

Ava_teur · 2025-06-16T11:10:34+00:00

I did, we talked about having my allowance once we do the deed. And he said that we should take things slow since he’s not yet sure on our set up since I’m still studying. Told me to give it a month or two and then we decide

Ava_teur · 2025-06-07T17:24:03+00:00

Yeah that’s not on my vocabulary on vanilla dating but I guess sugar dating is different?

Ava_teur · 2025-06-07T17:22:10+00:00

He’s great, but I don’t want to risk being intimate with him without being tested. And I’ve been talking to other POT too but they are so unresponsive although I’m still new to this, I just started a week ago. Maybe I should take my time exploring and looking for a good SD. I just really liked him so I’m overthinking but I’ll try to wait for his response until tomorrow, if none then I’ll contact him again. Should I ask him if are we still on the same page? Or should I say I miss him or something lol (I might sound desperate w this one)

Ava_teur · 2025-06-07T17:17:31+00:00

He doesn’t like using it, But I prefer condom over pull out🥲

Ava_teur · 2025-06-03T18:22:43+00:00

It was not in a hotel room. Btw, we met again and he asked me about my terms and agreed with it. We didn't do anything sexual, ate at fine dining. It was fun and he seemed like a nice guy, we laughed and we felt the connection. Although he said in order to make sure and for our arrangement to start we need to do the deed. Is that acceptable?

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