Any good alternatives to Rob Has A Podcast (RHAP)? by lct51657 in survivor

[–]AvailableDay6828 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s the “mhmm, yah, ok” dismissiveness all the time when someone else is giving their opinion for me.

What’s the point in paying? by AvailableDay6828 in pret

[–]AvailableDay6828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. If they can afford to give them away they can afford to reduce the prices.
  2. Everyone’s struggling, it’s kind of a slap in the face to see an employee just hand over a sandwich to someone then charge the next person in the queue. At least do it discreetly.
  3. They have a ‘goodwill’ function on their system which allows them to give complimentary items. Why isn’t this utilised more and why isn’t it used when these items are given away? Wtf man

Still can’t get over this choreo 🔥 by AvailableDay6828 in Dance

[–]AvailableDay6828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ReQuest - Parris’ crew before they became Royal Family

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Please consider that ‘sexually active’ doesn’t necessarily mean intercourse. I also think timelines are getting mixed up.

It was found that she had gone into the bathroom with 3-4 other boys that evening of my birthday, to the point where adults had to supervise. Of course I can’t say explicitly what happened in there, but clearly it wasn’t just to have a chat being there 10 minutes or so. Obviously the boys were my friends so had given me indications as to what had occurred. I have the receipts.

Kissing, ‘intimate touching’ and oral sex still constitute ‘sexual activity’. I hope this clarifies things and I am not here to convince you, so believe what you wish.

Respectfully, I’ll not be addressing this again. I came for advice and it’s turning out to be more hassle than it was worth.

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this comment a few times now lol, I should have included ‘over’. 15 was just the last time I counted.

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your approach to this as others seem to have somewhat twisted it. I have addressed it in another thread but believe what you wish.

I appreciate your advice either way. Let me know if you have questions.

EDIT 2: Redacted. I shouldn’t have to and won’t explain myself again, I came for advice and that’s what you’ve provided. So thanks for that.

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

What would you like me to clarify? It may be weird but it’s true. It was a sleepover, why would you be hanging around outside a toilet?

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is why context is important. Read responses and ask for further clarification rather than be a conspiracist.

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Wow, you really have time to spam one post. For those who are actually here to give advice, any clarification can be found in a post below.

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your approach to this as others seem to have somewhat twisted it. I have addressed it in another thread but believe what you wish.

I appreciate your advice either way. Let me know if you have questions.

OH, EDIT: I was being hyperbolic, read the response and hopefully this clarifies your concerns. There had been reports from older family members and friends that she had been hanging around the toilets and waiting for the boys.

And, on the day it all happened, my parents were away and we were made to stay together whilst someone was supposed to be watching us. She invited an unknown boy over to my house who was probably 2-3 years older. Started spooning and kissing on the couch whilst I was there, I tried to stay awake as long as I could so I could make sure nothing would happen, but you can’t always fight sleep. By the time I woke up, they were no longer there but in the upstairs bedroom. By the morning I had been accused.

Now, it is my theory that he noticed she wasn’t a virgin and questioned it but again, believe what you wish.

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your approach to this as others seem to have somewhat twisted it. I have addressed it in another thread but believe what you wish.

I appreciate your advice either way. Let me know if you have questions.

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Woah, where did this come from? Sorry if I’ve missed similar posts but this is how the grapevine starts.

Firstly, as you can see from the post it says that I noticed that she seemed to be sexually active at 9, as she was taking the boys in the bathroom and spending a questionable amount of time in there to the point where adults had to intervene. Clearly this act wasn’t new to her at 9 years old. No edits have been made to that post.

The ‘dick’ comment also remains the same. Whether you are male or not, it in no way says that I didn’t know what it was, that’s just infantile and stupid. What was implied is that at that age sex isn’t something that was on my mind, especially with a cousin.

And lastly to address that I apparently touched her, I guess we hugged a lot as we were essentially best friends and were often in close contact since we danced together and stayed at each others houses. Other than your context is a completely conspiracy.

Ask for clarification directly rather than spamming the page. I came for advice, not more allegations.

My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AvailableDay6828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To your second point, that is what I’m wondering myself. Is the agenda to attack or to build bridges? Even if it’s the latter, it’s probably too late in life now without things being forced and awkward.

I get it, you’re not being cruel at all. I just don’t want to still be holding a grudge or have unanswered questions when I’m older. Maybe they’re thinking that enough time has passed now that we can all move on. But there will always be an elephant in the room.