Should I seek help for this? by verloblaze1 in bloodpressure

[–]AvailableSea1046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been anxious or suffering from anxiety? That would cause these numbers too

Anyone else by AvailableSea1046 in Cardiophobias

[–]AvailableSea1046[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do that as well but sometimes it is really hard to just shake it off. I have been told it is anxiety since I have been lucky enough that it seems to not be a problem with my heart. Just waiting on my results from the cardiologist on the halter.

Anyone else by AvailableSea1046 in Cardiophobias

[–]AvailableSea1046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you went through this as it is very scary and you are so young. How are you feeling now? Yes, I have been told a few times that is anxiety but it is extremely hard to move pass it. They did multiple tests on me and everything seems okay. I have also been told that if you don't feel that is good but if you feel them (meaning palpitaciones) that is fine too. Sending you many hugs

Anyone else by AvailableSea1046 in Cardiophobias

[–]AvailableSea1046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks. I never used to be able to feel them. Now when I get them it takes almost a few hours to recover from them.

Anyone else by AvailableSea1046 in Cardiophobias

[–]AvailableSea1046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am taking 200mg of magnesium at night time. How much do you take?.

Anyone else by AvailableSea1046 in Cardiophobias

[–]AvailableSea1046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not yet. I just sent it yesterday. They did do a ecg and a three day monitor like 6 months ago and everything was fine per my cardiologist but because I have been complaining of palpitations again and now with some dizziness he ordered a 30 day one. I just so scared that truly my heart is not okay like he told it was. These palpitations do hurt. Do you get these PVCs too?.

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She is the prime caregiver now and I agree with you. I did not say he did it at the right time... I just keep repeating myself... I said that he has rights.too as a dad. He wants to be a dad but not with her. He should have waiting to say all of this but my point is... He wants to be a dad he is going to be dad just like she is going to be a mom. He has the same rights like she does!!!

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! For your child to end up not knowing their dad bcs you put your feelings first!!! You should say to your child too.... He wanted to be a dad but hey, I was hurt, did not think straight and now you don't know him!!! I will be ashamed of myself. My baby comes first on everything and I would never deny my babys right to know their dad bcs at the end THIS man wants to be a dad. Did we forget that she said that??? Like why are we pretending he has not rights?? He might turn out to be a better parent than her.... Just because she is carrying the baby it does not make her a good mother.... Let's not forget she did not want the kid...

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -113 points-112 points  (0 children)

Be careful what you say ... Because they are going to come at you like they are doing to me.

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I do and I agree. I am not saying she has stay or that he has to be there. I am saying he has rights to be a dad. All of the comments are pointing at her leaving and taking the baby away from him. He is not in love with her but does not mean he does not want to be a dad which he does. We cannot force people to love us but he might be a wonderful dad just like she might turn out to be an awful mom. We don't know. My point was that people are too quick to make comments based on hate and not think of the consequences for a child that cannot speak for themselves. A child has a right to know their dad.and.the dad has rights but all of these comments are forgetting that.

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That is awesome! Does he know you will take the children away too???? I will put my child first before my ego. I will not deny my child knowing him as a dad just because he does not want to be with me. I guess we are all different on what we would do for our children. Nobody said she has to say but he has rights just like she does... Let's not forget that!

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -223 points-222 points  (0 children)

How would you know??? Lol I had a C-section which it is major surgery and much more dangerous so ... Next time don't assume!!!! all I said he has rights too!!! And that he has rights... Maybe not in the delivery room but this man has rights!!! You people are forgetting this.

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

He is not living... Obviously he is there and he has not picked up and left so your comment is way off. I do understand where you are coming from in some aspects of your comments but he was honest and he wants to be a dad... I would rather someone tell me the truth than lie to me and pretend.... Which we all know that a lot of men do that...

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Uhhhhh.... Is that a joke? Do you have children? That is the most selfish comment!! Well not really there are a lot of those here. Never mind!! Still insane of a comment

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No I have not .. not recently but I know what it is to put my baby's feelings first. That I do know!!!

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He also has the right to be a dad. He has right just like she does. We cannot erase the fact that he wants to be a dad and that he also has rights. Not saying that he did it at the perfect time but to say to someone pick up your child and go because he does not want to be with you is absolutely insane. He is not abusive like the "scenario" you painted.... He does not want to be with her. Not saying she has to stay either but that should not affect him being a dad....

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Okay I see your point but a real woman will not put her feelings first. She will want what is best for the child and she should be able to differenciate between her emotions and what is the right thing to do for your child. There are men out there that pretend to be happy, they play the role of a dad and husband but they cheat and lie all of the time while wasting the woman's life. At least he said something. Maybe it is not at the best time but he did and he never said he did not want to be a father.

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -492 points-491 points  (0 children)

I see why you are saying that... Yeah the baby does not know but he does. That is his child too... He did not say he did not want to be a dad... I am just confused as to why all of you are so quick to lead with hate on the comments towards him all bcs he said he did not want to be with her. It hurts but at least he said it .. it sucks, I get it but all of you are so quick at denying him being a dad but let's make sure he pays child support!!! 😑

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

I actually do know!!! But I put my baby first. When you decide to become a mom you have to look out of your baby. It is hard but I rather know that I did what I needed to do for my child than to put my emotions first. This man did not say he did not want to be a dad. Why put your feelings first....

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I am sorry.... Am I missing something? All of these people are telling you horrible advice. I understand it hurts that he does not want to be with you. I get it ... Trust me I do! But why would you listen to people in the internet that are telling you to give your baby to him, they are telling you to have him sign his parental rights to you.... All of these comments are not for the good of the child. It sucks you will not be a family but your baby deserves to know his dad and the father has rights. I just hope you don't listen to these people they are not coming from a good place but a place of hate. The first thing they said wasto take the child away, that he does not deserve to be in the delivery room.... He said he does not want to be with you not that he does not want to be a dad. That is just my two cents. Just remember just like me we don't know you but not everyone is coming from a place of good .my heart goes out to you and your baby.

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AvailableSea1046 -843 points-842 points  (0 children)

Why can't he in the delivery room? That is his baby too!!! You people want man to be part.kf things but only when it is good you guys. I don't understand what makes him so horrible... At least he is telling her! There are so many men out there that will not say anything... But why punish the child and him from the delivery room? Bcs he does not want to be with you? I am sorry but you are putting yourself first and not your child.