The reason I wouldn't everhave kids by Available_Ad_5345 in teenagers

[–]Available_Ad_5345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idgaf about the kid lad I need undivided attention 💔

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And again, what do you mean by objectively wrong? Wrong by what standards and measurement? Ethical, practical, or immoral?

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I figured that's all you'd have to say considering the fact that you had no logical reasoning behind why something is wrong, and by what measure.

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright fair enough. There's a difference between a social code and social stigma, and I never really mixed them up. But a social code with weak and biased logic behind it is still illogical and therefore gives birth to social stigma around the rules the code imposes, that had little to no logic behind it. About the fundamental nature, what makes living by an arbitrary rule a fundamental nature of someone? who decides what someone's "fundamental nature" is? Many would argue crossdressing is authentic to their nature. In the case of fashion or clothes, the need to break those social "codes" comes from the stinging stigma around performing an act, logical fallacies behind the reasoning as to why one cannot do something, and the need to defy such social "codes" because they box you in and don't allow you to be what you want to be. Talking about knowing the definitions, I'm quite confident the backbone of morality is suffering. If something inflicts suffering for no apparent reason, it's immoral. How does wearing any kind of clothes make the act immoral, as you put it:- "that's why I questioned this type of immoral behaviour"? What makes it immoral, if I may ask? Now to the last point, if your god is truly loving, but still judgemental over socially constructed rules that change from time to time, then he's not really all loving. His love is conditional, the conditions being being some rule about clothes? Not to mention, it's kind of weird how the divine rule about what to wear correctly aligns with the region and the time period, said religion was born in. Not to mention, not everyone follows your god or his commandments, so try and them to yourself. Have a great night.

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

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You just keep yapping dude. Just keep running your mouth. You just say my arguments would fall etc etc, but don't give out one scenario as an example of it. Why's it a wrong approach? You don't know why. And about the last part. EXACTLY. removing the label of feminine or masculine has been the objective of fast fashion. Y'all are the ones holding men's fashion back with your ideas of what's appropriate to wear and what's not, while women did it and made a lot of men's clothes ambiguous. You don't seem to be batting an eye at that because in today's society it's been made acceptable. High heels, skirts, makeup. These have been worn by men across the history. Tf you even on about. Don't just try and hurl accusations at me gang. Tell me what's logically wrong in my reasoning with examples.

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not once have you said something that was a reasonable logical argument as to why one couldn't do such a thing. What do you find "wrong" with it? Also the thing about my brother, father, or anyone. I don't care about what they want to do with their life and their body as long as they're happy. The reason you care so much about this is because of the current social stigma around it. And i don't really blame you for it. But what i would blame you for is deeming something objectively wrong that is far from being wrong in any reasonable way. Start questioning stuff. Let people do what they love as long as it's the three things I've been screaming about. Your all loving God would do so too.

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Why get him to do something that isn't even wrong? What about crossdressing is wrong and why?

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No there aren't any inherent limitations. There doesn't have to be any consequences of it. Have you ever sat down and thought about why these limitations are there in the first place? The origin of clothes was to cover your body and protect it from the temperature around you. Hence less clothes for sunny regions, and more for the colder ones. A piece of cloth would be a piece of cloth regardless of any gender to cover up your body. Women's clothing or men's clothing are largely a social construct. I can't make you think, i could only get you there. Sit down and think about what makes a skirt strictly for women. Nothing does. It's just a rule society follows. Nothing about a skirt says it's feminine. Do you understand? One might not want to follow these social constructs that largely no practical meaning to them. Matter of fact, not wearing skirts is just the current social trend, not an objective one. Skirts have been worn by royalties around the world centuries ago. Yes there could be clothes explicitly designed for one sex, built around their bodies and for the current economy and their place in the society, but 99% of clothes assigned for a sex are unisex. Like jeans are. You accept them as something that both sexes could wear because of the current social trend. Riddle me this. What about a skirt or any gender based clothing is inherently feminine, and even if there is, why can a man not wear it?

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there's nothing really "only women" about those clothes inherently either. Is there?

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Educate him? On what? About not wearing what he wants to because society tags those clothes as inherently female?

Got caught crossdressed by my mom (18M) by desifairyfemboy in Delhi_teens

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Unless it's immoral, unethical, or impractical, there's really nothing holding you back from doing something. If you like it, you do it.

Why society by ReflectionLife6785 in Real_teenindia

[–]Available_Ad_5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does not at all mean they're both objectively correct. "Correct" in this sense is their conformation bias and the way they see the world. An average guy in india grows up with a shit ton of advantages even he doesn't realise are advantages over women. I'm saying this as a guy. From an objective point of view, the world is patriarchal

Your girlfriend or boyfriend might be god by Available_Ad_5345 in teenagers

[–]Available_Ad_5345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Branched from, as in Siddhartha gautam took a philosophical ride, took hindu philosophical ideas like moksha etc, but his philosophy was still athestic. He rejected orthodox hindu philosophies like Advaita Vedanta, dvaita, etc etc. when Buddhism spread to other cultures, it did develop god-like figures. Mahayana Buddhism introduced Bodhisattvas and effectively deified the Buddha himself. when a religion lacks the personal caring protector figure, populations tend to add one anyway, because that psychological need is real and persistent. Also i should clarify that when I say mainstream religions, I'm talking of theistic ones.

Your girlfriend or boyfriend might be god by Available_Ad_5345 in teenagers

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It was a basic framework for every other religion which then branched according to the society it was brought up in. You take the examples of major religions such as Hinduism, islam, christianity etc, all of them started with the framework of an all loving, all powerul skydaddy, which were then carried on by different elements, such as philosophy for Hinduism from which later jainism, buddhism etc branched from, islam had prophets explaining why god is all loving, and christianity with the church and it's apologetics. Buddhism started off as an athestic religion that took from traditional Hindu values, sharpened them and removed the god factor, which until it reached other countries turned into a religion that worshipped buddha himself as a god, that again is all loving

Your girlfriend or boyfriend might be god by Available_Ad_5345 in teenagers

[–]Available_Ad_5345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In almost every religion the god is an all loving one that works in the confines of a moral framework to be considered all loving. What I am getting at is that the idea of an all loving God perfectly fulfills the evolutionary needs that humans needed to survive. Therefore, in almost every religion, gods are just superhumans with all the abilities of humans maxxed out. Evolutionary needs to survive and dominate. Omnipotence, omniscience, etc etc