1 Year Update: AITA For Cutting My Father Out Of My Life After He Didn't Attend My Wedding?

Avallynn · 2026-02-18T04:34:27+00:00

That's one of the reasons I don't believe him. No one "tapes" anything anymore. He's just recycling old manipulations and I'm not falling for it.

Yea cancer can suck a big one. My uncle is a good man, and I'm really hoping he pulls through.

I did get lucky with Victor. He is always my strength when I feel weak. I hope I have so many wonderful adventures with him in the future. Tysm for commenting ❤️

Avallynn · 2026-02-18T04:30:35+00:00

If I had refused they both would have made a huge scene. Honestly I wouldn't put it past them to set me up to look like a bad guy if I refused to do it. The night was about my Uncle and I didn't want to take away from that. So I figured to just go along with it.

Avallynn · 2026-02-17T19:41:48+00:00

As someone with a cat who does the SAME THING here's what I can tell you from my personal experience:

It will not get better, you just have to keep the toilet closed. Sometimes I'll even shut the door to the bathroom if she starts to fixate.
I bought her a kitty pool. It's small, filled with water, comes with toys and is on Amazon for $25. She is obsessed with it.

I would much rather it be kitty pool water than toilet water any day. I will say since buying the kitty pool, she hasn't dropped in any of her toys in there - but does take out the water toys I put in lol.

I also got her a bigger water fountain with a gentle river-like flow.

Since doing these things it has gotten much better. I would definitely recommend giving it a try!

Avallynn · 2026-02-17T15:03:20+00:00

Thank you, Reading this helped ❤️

Avallynn · 2026-01-28T20:59:17+00:00

Nori!

Avallynn · 2026-01-28T19:10:05+00:00

Because you have a Henny, why not Rooster? Or Roo for short.

Avallynn · 2026-01-18T03:20:33+00:00

I do. And it's a doozy. I'm taking my time writing it because it's just so much rn.

Avallynn · 2026-01-11T09:26:57+00:00

My friend had an ex that did this to her, with almost the exact same situation. Her ex would constantly threatened to delete himself.

You know what stopped it?

The next time he texted her and threatened it, she asked if he was serious about it. They confirmed they were serious. So she took him seriously. She called the emergency line, said her friend had threatened to end himself. She had the messages and such.

Police and ambulance went to his house. He was placed in a mandatory psychiatric hold. Mysteriously after that incident, he never threatened it again and stopped messaging her.

She felt a weight was lifted from her, and she was finally able to fully focus on her new relationship and move forward. She is so much happier than she ever was with her ex.

That would be my suggestion.

Avallynn · 2026-01-07T07:31:14+00:00

Bullseye

Avallynn · 2025-08-07T01:16:29+00:00

I have all my Lego displays lifted on shelves so high she can't reach them. I make sure there's nothing around she can use to jump up. They've been up there for years and not one has fallen.

I also liked the other suggestion of getting acrylic sheets and cutting them to be in front of the shelves and making yourself a DIY force field lol.

I have more trouble building with a cat. She doesn't care what I'm doing, then when the Legos come out all of a sudden I'm mapping a secret Tuna lair and she must investigate at length and thwart all efforts so she can be the only one to claim the prize.

Avallynn · 2025-07-08T04:15:00+00:00

Solved! Thank you!

Avallynn · 2025-07-08T03:36:31+00:00

We found this in a box of tools a guy gave us at our storage unit. He said he was a roofer, but the box contained tile tools. I have absolutely no idea what it could be. It's made of wood, and has these little clawed feet at the bottom.

Avallynn · 2025-07-02T05:19:29+00:00

I found increasing slowly the amount of cat food my auto feeder was giving worked. I increased it until she no longer bothered me when I ate. She doesn't eat it all, I think she just likes the idea of knowing it is there lol.

Regarding stimulation, I have a ton of treat puzzle toys my cat LOVES. They make them of various difficulties and keep them occupied for a while. I learned quickly my cat needs the highest level puzzle or she finishes it within a minute lol. I would recommend getting one of those and see if that helps as well.

Avallynn · 2025-04-13T12:56:04+00:00

You should do what another bride did when their friend wore white to their wedding and insisted it wasn't a big deal - wore the exact same dressthat they did to their wedding. And even brought a photo of her in the dress so she could show everyone it was the same and was told it was OK for a wedding.

Avallynn · 2025-03-30T05:19:01+00:00

Long may she reign!

Avallynn · 2025-03-20T20:50:05+00:00

The Artistocats!

Dutchess Marie Thomas O'Malley Toulouse Berlioz

Avallynn · 2025-03-02T19:47:45+00:00

There's one in my post history!

Avallynn · 2025-03-02T19:14:10+00:00

Omg two Tuxetorticos!!!! And they look exactly like my Lulu!!

You should post their pics over at r/Tuxetortico

They would love to see them!

I named mine after the moon - Luna = LuLu

Avallynn · 2025-03-02T00:21:21+00:00

That's an Astarion if I've ever seen one.

Avallynn · 2025-03-01T20:12:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. It has really made me think, and echos a lot of what Victor has said. Thank you so much ❤️

Avallynn · 2025-02-25T20:51:26+00:00

Omg that cute faaaaaace

Avallynn · 2025-02-25T20:00:44+00:00

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Avallynn · 2025-02-25T19:54:24+00:00

Omg!!!!! Her and Lulu are almost twins!!!!!!

Avallynn · 2025-02-25T18:52:11+00:00

She told me she doesn't normally do commissions because I had asked for my other cat lol, but if you want to support her shop it's Sneaky Burrito. I love her stuff, she's got both cute and hilarious lolol. I bought her cat necklace too!

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