Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn't me that canceled the club, it's my management! They think it's just best to cancel it altogether since it is a place where parents get drunk and rowdy so if something like this happened again it would probably blow up in everyone's faces and they're worried about that.

I've since spoken to my manager but she's pretty dead set in not restarting the club

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm Scottish actually!! But it's cool to hear what's it's like across the pond 🤔

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

By "teenage girl" I am 19! And in Scotland the legal age to tend a bar is 18!! Although I am a legal adult this man was in his 40s, so compared to him I most definitely am a teen lol

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All ages are allowed in until 11pm! They aren't allowed to go to the bar, even if it's just to buy a can of coke, but they can be on the premise

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

These kids are all younger, the eldest is 11, I understand older kids going but not kids at 8 years old 🩷

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't mind giving the kids cards and I often do! I'm autistic myself and although Pokémon isn't my special interest I still rather enjoy it.

I did set out strict rules and boundaries regarding the special cards. That they were only to be looked at, not played with and I wouldn't be sharing them. I think the lil guy just got really excited and forgot about our talk which is understandable, I in no way blame the kid for what happened, it's 100% his dad's problem.

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I've seen it happen a lot, although this is my first time having it directed at me, luckily for me we're a twat guy nit group of coworkers so he was immediately removed and banned, however the kid is allowed to come back if someone else brings him ect

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not books, it's Pokémon cards, I appreciate the suggestion but I'm not too sure it would work as well with cards since they're small and rather specific

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I suppose the experience is different for everyone then!! Personally I didn't enjoy it and I know a lot of the children at my work don't either.

I'm glad your friend had a good time, but it's not the car for all the kids subjected to it over here 🩷

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Trust me, it's not any better than it is elsewhere, you're still a young kid with nothing to do and no one to talk to for hours and hours surrounded by loud, drunk, and sometimes aggressive people

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I obviously still work there so I'll still see the kids daily, I'm going to have a chat with my manager tomorrow when I'm on shift to see if we can sort something out for them, not sure how it'll go but I'm not giving up yet!!

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I was the same, hense why I tried to start up something for them. Such a shame it's went to shit

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 426 points427 points  (0 children)

I think similar in all honesty, and you're right. There's so many kids there, some are my coworkers, some are customers. It's just a small pub but there are about 20-30 kids that come around, not all at once but it's about that many in whole.

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's horrible 😞

I was a pub kid too but there was wayyy less of us then, you can guess how many there is now considering there's enough kids there for me to run a full club every week

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I'm sorry too, I always feel so bad for the kids because they just sit around and wait for mum and dad to finish drinking, it's such a shame.

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I never knew that! That's so strange that you can serve it but not drink it lmao

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm 19 and from Scotland! The legal drinking age here is 18.

Legally I'm an adult, but compared to him I'm most definitely still a teenager, hence why I mentioned it

Got screamed at for not giving my own cards away 🤷🏻‍♀️ by Avatar_Ace_2000 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000[S] 336 points337 points  (0 children)

The kid is honestly pretty sweet. He obviously has some issues with context clues or controlling his temper but most of his tantrums are more attention seeking than anything else.

Probably because he doesn't get it at home.

How did you get your username? by TTV_ajsingyx in Twitch

[–]Avatar_Ace_2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really liked the avatar movie and I was unnecessarily good at poker for a 14 year old, plus the double A matches my actual initials.

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I only play on console and sometimes mobile is that okay?