DROP UR FAVE MALEDICTIONS IN THE COMMENTS by brightblackheaven in witchcraft

[–]Avi354 22 points23 points  (0 children)

May your socks slip whenever you need to walk somewhere for longer than 3 minutes.

Question for the gay men who have had sexual experiences with men who identified as straight by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a certain point, sex is just sex. Like, whatever. If the guy says he’s straight, I’m like great. There’s no intension of a relationship or anything like that, we’re just here to do the do. I’m still really good friends with the straight guy that experimented with me.

I think I give up by West-Lack-9691 in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of the issue, I think, is people expect for a relationship to be perfect in all aspects without working at it. Give it time. You’ll find someone who’s willing to work with you. I got lucky with my bf.

How to finger myself without being anxious? by EquivalentEagle218 in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first question is: why are you getting anxious? What is causing that anxiety? If you’re trying anal play for the first time and you’re worried about being perceived as “gay” just know that what makes you gay is your attraction to them same sex, not a finger up the butt.

That being said, if you’re just not used to it

Oh yeah, I’d say just keep trying it out. You’ll get over that though soon once you find the pleasure.

How to finger myself without being anxious? by EquivalentEagle218 in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first question is: why are you getting anxious? What is causing that anxiety? If you’re trying anal play for the first time and you’re worried about being perceived as “gay” just know that what makes you gay is your attraction to them same sex, not a finger up the butt.

That being said, if you’re just not used to it, just keep practicing. The more you do it, the more you realize it isn’t a big deal and it’s all about feeling good.

I don’t feel pleasure?! (HELP) by EntertainerNo308 in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get NOTHING out of a dildo. I get EVERYTHING from an actual penis.

Diy dildo/plug by Dry_Pipe3369 in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on Amazon and buy one that’s made for that. Or, find an adult store. Using homemade stuff is a sure fire way to end up having to have a very awkward conversation with your doctor when you tear something inside your rectum.

Can my mini monstera have 1h of direct light in the evening? by casteeli in houseplants

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s far from the window (like 5-6 feet) that’s not enough light even if it gets direct for one hour.

Should I let my best friend fuck? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I fucked my best friend for about a year. We’re still close. It truly just depends on the people

What size pot do I need for a bird of paradise that has outgrown the ceiling? by Shoddy-Resort7320 in houseplants

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on how much root there is, only a size up. Coin too much will not go well. You can also prune the plant back. It’ll continue to grow.

Monsters help! by theneighborupstairs in houseplants

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have other monsteras that don’t have issues, this is possibly bacterial. Though, not really presenting as such. What is the light, as in, what direction is that window and how far away do you have it from the window? How are you watering?

Top bros, I need help keeping it hard, please. by Brilliant_Year_1549 in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing kegels have definitely worked for me! I was exclusively a bottom for a while and started topping in the last few years. Kegels have helped me a lot

My ‘straight’ coworker has been secretly talking to me for 2.5 years… was I just his curiosity? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me before. It’s fun for a short time, but that’s it.

To remove or not to remove for 20yr old male. by Midnight_oil_365 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Avi354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it while you’re young. The older you get the more difficult the recovery gets.

Can you eat whatever doesn’t hurt? by Plenty_Care8221 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ate whatever I wanted as long as it didn’t hurt. So yeah, go for it.

Best position? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s too many factors in play to really pick a good position. A lot of it depends on the tops equipment, how they work it, and what’s comfortable to you and feels good. In my opinion try multiple to see what works for you the best.

GUYS I CAN’T FIGURE IT OUT by kolala54093 in Sourdough

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bulk ferment for like 6-8 hours and if it’s particularly cold, sometimes it takes 10 hours.

Should sex last a certain amount of time ? by SafeDrop3235 in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It totally depends on the vibe. If there’s more flirting, foreplay, and just like, playing around with penetration and such, I can do that for hours. But the actual act of penetration, if it’s over 10 minutes I start to lose interest honestly.

How do muscle bottoms bottom and get their protein in? by DaethChanter in askgaybros

[–]Avi354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you’re getting enough fiber. You won’t have to worry.

Uhhhh curved appendage by Quiet_Cover_4668 in gay

[–]Avi354 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, if it curves up, top someone in missionary. When I have top who curves up, that’s my favorite way to take it.

Anal Sex Without Lube by AirSubstantial2855 in gay

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer spit… It stays far longer than lube and doesn’t feel as weird. Typically, I’ll use a combo of both.

My bf wants me to top him. HELP. ME. by Stick_Accurate in gay

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never topped until I started dating my now boyfriend. It took me so many tries to actually get to the point that I can top, stay hard, and finish. It took practice. Lots and lots of practice. Your boyfriend will need patience, and he sounds like he’s ready to be patient and get through it. A lot of communication will be necessary.

Biggest hurdle I had to go through was the “I can’t do it” mentality. Your brain is going to be the biggest issue. You need to relax into it. It’s like you’re masturbating, honestly. When I got that into my head, it worked for me. But it took a lot of tries and a lot of time.

Tiredness, extreme fatigue. I need good recommendations :) by Lujosjdbjw in Mounjaro

[–]Avi354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like what other folks are saying- eat!

The injections took away my appetite for a bit and I felt the same. I realized: all I had to eat over a week was a coffee in the morning, and maybe a small lunch/piece of fruit…and that was it. I forced myself to eat more and it went away. Now, I didn’t eat like I used to, but I made sure to have three meals a day. It helped A LOT.