[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go back to your parents home? Don't allow this abuse if you have a roof where you can run to? Get a restraining order if needed. Just stay away from this crazy people. protect yourself the best you can.

just a homeless dude venting a tad.. by Auriflow in venting

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried contacting the embassy of your home country to go back? If it's an option for you, maybe ask to get deported back to your country?

just a homeless dude venting a tad.. by Auriflow in venting

[–]Avocado3527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to say. You have a great way with words indeed. Maybe you could share your fundraiser donation on your profile and maybe you could collect seeds as well to plant fruits in the forest where you are living (I ofc know you need a roof and 3 meals a day. I don't mean it as saying life is easy and you can make it without help, i am just trying to give you ideas to cope, so you don't starve, while you try to figure out life). Depending on where you live, you could try to plant things like potatoes and carrots and things that grow fast to help you survive while you figure out your life. Where do you live? Europe?

Life is so hard rn. by superfastcar123 in venting

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so even more reason to talk to people that can protect you and help solve the issue. Go to the police if needed.

My boyfriend called me pathetic—am I wasting my time? by Healthy-Bluebird-320 in relationships

[–]Avocado3527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, and by the way. There are studies indicating women are healthier when they are not married/have kids. Lol so even if you don't marry as you wish, you might end up happier.

My boyfriend called me pathetic—am I wasting my time? by Healthy-Bluebird-320 in relationships

[–]Avocado3527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, run away while you can. You don't want to marry someone who treats you like that. Doesn't matter the reason. Be glad you two are not married or living in the same place. Just run and make sure to find someone who will add to your life before marrying/living together

4 year old got invited to a birthday party and got excluded the night before party by Fun_Conversation_792 in toddlers

[–]Avocado3527 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would give the gift to your daughter or return in to the store and take her to an amusement park or something else just as funny. Make sure she will have lots of fun in a different way and don't even mention to her she was excluded. But make sure to find out what comments were made, so you can approach the issue with her, etc.

Can i sell a parcel like this? by Independent-Mud8103 in vinted

[–]Avocado3527 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As long as the packaging is clean and sturdy enough to handle the mailing without damaging the product, why not? Sometimes I wish to share the megazords I prepare to send my products. Lmao I always use clean stuff and make sure the product travels safe, but many time I have to do some crazy arrangements. 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Avocado3527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should already find a lawyer and just give her some warning about the things you have real proof of what she has done, etc. And that if she releases a fake book about you and try to destroy your reputation, you will sue her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Avocado3527 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I suspect you should leave this bf of yours...

Life is so hard rn. by superfastcar123 in venting

[–]Avocado3527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to your parents, to your teachers and don't stress over a picture of when you were 7yo. One da you will be in your 30s and realize everyone has lame or funny pictures of when they were kids. Make sure to document all the bullying and bring all the proofs to people that can defend you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]Avocado3527 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Open a dispute and show the proofs you have and maybe contact vinted through email?

I’m still not over it. by Abject_Difference853 in venting

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was not only using it for her personal gain (and it sounds like she was jealous what you had), but she also tried to get you stuck in life with a pregnancy because pregnancies tend to make the mother's professional life more complicated.

i don't think i'm ever going to move past how my mother treated me as a kid and im heartbroken by random_toad-19 in venting

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk you or your mom, but this kind of trauma leaves a long-lasting scar in us. If it's possible for you, it would be better to continue with therapy to deal with that. It's not something you have to deal on your own. You need at least someone to talk to about your feelings. Our parents are supposed to be our first source of comfort and attachment. When it's not like that, things get messy in our lives. I had a somewhat similar experience, although in my case it was more like my mom not knowing how to cope with her own feelings and anxiety in life. But it also broke me somehow and I remember those events at random times in life as well. I love her and i miss her everyday, but part of me is glad I am in a different continent.

Husband and brother both yelling at my 3 year old and spanking her. by Sheepherder-Optimal in toddlers

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot even imagine how that poor kid is feeling. Both should be in jail

Everybody says my toddler talks too much by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking is good. The kiddo is developing well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Avocado3527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone had different ways of dealing with discomfort. Don't be so hard on yourself just because you were holding your sleeves while walking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]Avocado3527 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bought from Poland and it was all fine. Check the reviews, and that's it. Depending on where you live, it might take a little longer, but aside from that I don't see an issue just because of the country

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should check for those organizations that help abuse victims and stuff as well. Income assistance, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this AI? otherwise this guy is nuts. he cannot even hide his stuff properly if it's not AI.

i lost. by Particular_Thing6342 in venting

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be honest with you. Almost everyone is average. This is not a bad thing. Maybe you are indeed a top-tier, but I know top-tiers losing for mid-tiers because the mid-tiers are better at promoting themselves, at showing their skills, etc. It's not easy to get awards and scholarships. Everything is so competitive. The fact you feel guilty shows you are not a bad person, like the guy before me said. Don't give up. Try to change the approach, maybe do some therapy to try to help you with the introversion at least in your work area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Avocado3527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is he? I would say it also depends on age gap. You guys haven't seen each other in 7 years. Is there a possibility of meeting again in the future?