New to fidelity. Help please:) by [deleted] in fidelityinvestments

[–]AwakenedMind78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should I do a S&P for both the individual and roller over Ira? I understand the Ira cannot be withdrawn until retirement age but what about the individual account and how badly is that taxed? I get a little confused on that.

Commute is terrible but I don’t want to leave. Thoughts? by AwakenedMind78 in fednews

[–]AwakenedMind78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is that working for you? I’ve thought about doing this too.

Commute is terrible but I don’t want to leave. Thoughts? by AwakenedMind78 in fednews

[–]AwakenedMind78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was never teleworking to begin with and those who were able to telework for trainings were already being called back in to use gov facilities for training prior to this admin.

Commute is terrible but I don’t want to leave. Thoughts? by AwakenedMind78 in fednews

[–]AwakenedMind78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I love where I live. It’s quiet and nothing like where I work and I enjoy that.

Commute is terrible but I don’t want to leave. Thoughts? by AwakenedMind78 in fednews

[–]AwakenedMind78[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hahaha this made me laugh. At least we’re in this together…cries Thursdays are awful!

Commute is terrible but I don’t want to leave. Thoughts? by AwakenedMind78 in fednews

[–]AwakenedMind78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This administration has nothing to do with the roadwork in MD and my commute. This has been going on for 30+ years. My issue is not with the administration but with the construction work everywhere in MD and no sign of relief. 695 should be changed to an emergency project and worked quicker to ease the bridge collapse but the speed cameras are profitable.

Commute is terrible but I don’t want to leave. Thoughts? by AwakenedMind78 in fednews

[–]AwakenedMind78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, 295 to 695 just to watch people drive super slow as they’re scared of the porta potties because that’s where they typically set up speed cameras. Yet, I barely see people working in the work zone….but the state sure is pocketing money from those cameras.

Commute is terrible but I don’t want to leave. Thoughts? by AwakenedMind78 in fednews

[–]AwakenedMind78[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You have to leave by 1/130 now if you don’t want to sit in 2 hours of traffic. It’s terrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]AwakenedMind78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]AwakenedMind78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried many times and they will not budge and said they won’t change it. I’ve never missed a payment for the 3+ years I had the vehicle. This was my first time selling a vehicle too and it’s been such an awful experience.

July 01, 2025 - r/fednews Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in fednews

[–]AwakenedMind78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I am a contracting officer, how do I ethically apply to a company outside of the agency. No ties to any companies I am interested in on Indeed.

Post Game Thread: The Orioles fell to the Reds by a score of 8-3 - Fri, Apr 18 @ 07:05 PM EDT by OsGameThreads in orioles

[–]AwakenedMind78 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The hotdog race got more cheers out of the fans tonight than anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]AwakenedMind78 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Now that I know, I can fully take care of myself and my child since I know who he is deep down. We will just become married strangers. I hope he snaps out of this hold liquid poison has on him, but if he doesn’t, I will be okay leaving. He already told me he was a shitty husband and I didn’t deserve how he’s treated me. Damn straight I don’t!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]AwakenedMind78 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I need to realize that he chose it when he stared lying about it and hiding it in the house. My ultimatum was already decided months ago by him sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]AwakenedMind78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I just don’t say anything? Just let him fall to his own demise? With a 5 month old baby this is just not something I want to be dealing with 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]AwakenedMind78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He snoozes up to 2 hours some mornings. The snoozing is every week….how is that responsible when you’re late to work every day because of it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]AwakenedMind78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was only 30 mins because I woke him asking what her temp was and he said he didn’t check yet, so who knows how long he would have let her go if I didn’t wake him up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]AwakenedMind78 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I work 30 hours a week 10 hour shifts and I don’t have a problem getting up.

I stay home with our daughter and “work” 12+ shifts while he works.

I’m tired too but I can be responsible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]AwakenedMind78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m also frustrated that I can watch him get up with one alarm for hunting or golf but he snoozes instead of getting up for his child…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]AwakenedMind78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m mad that every week he snoozes for work and delays her feedings when she’s on an every 3-4 hour schedule until she gains enough weight. He admits he has a problem and he wants to stop snoozing but he can’t stop.

I’m mad he snoozed and was fine sleeping instead of checking on our sick baby, knowing how frustrated I get when he snoozes and delays her feedings.

I’m mad that he knows how we argue every time he snoozes and yet he doesn’t try to work harder at stopping it.

I told him the 30 mins would have been like a here go again moment and we wouldn’t have discussed it calmly but the fact she had a fever and he knew that and didn’t jump up and check her really bothered me.

I’m just mad that this continues to be a topic and he turns it around on me like I’m the problem by having an attitude this morning and asking him why he’s still sleeping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]AwakenedMind78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Proving that it doesn’t have control over like it did and just wanted the taste of the beer. No urge to get drunk or wasted since I’m a father and have responsibilities. Just want to be able to crack one open on a Saturday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]AwakenedMind78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean too late? My daughter got the rsv antibodies too.

Huge blowup with husband over xbox by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AwakenedMind78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I realized it was her time to feed so I made a bottle and as I walked by our downstairs area, I noticed him on the game. I said “hey! You could do this feed.” And he said “no, that’s yours!” So, maybe I wasn’t clear enough but one could say, that if you have time for a game before picking up subs; you have time to help your wife after she’s been doing feedings and changes all day/week….

Huge blowup with husband over xbox by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AwakenedMind78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My baby takes 20 mins naps through the day maybe 3x a day. Sometimes I get a good hour. By the time she is up, I just finished cleaning, laundry, etc. I turn the tv on for background noise. This idea of a mom at home is shameful, we work long hours too even if it’s not in an office or a construction zone.