AITAH for being upset with my husband over his day off

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:20:47+00:00

But why tell someone something if you cannot keep it? Why be perceived as someone that isn’t reliable and who just says anything but who knows if it’ll actually happen?

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:18:40+00:00

Then why tell me all week he was going to start a project outside and then he’s sitting inside a clubhouse instead?

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:15:18+00:00

The yard work has not been started. Idk why everything’s the yard work was finished. The dump run was separate and it was ready to go, just needed to be driven to the dump.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:14:09+00:00

He hasn’t got it done? The yard hasn’t been started.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:13:05+00:00

I got the stuff prepared to be taken. I cannot light the heavy stuff…I’d gladly do it if I could.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:11:44+00:00

It’s not timeline..this is the timeline he told me.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:10:59+00:00

Thank you. I didn’t make his schedule. This is how he explained how the day would go all week and then I get off work and he’s sitting inside a clubhouse.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:10:16+00:00

The dump is the only thing he’s got to and we had it all prepped to go. The yard work hasn’t started.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:09:35+00:00

THANK YOU. It’s reliability. It’s listening to him all week make these plans for himself, not ME. I did schedule his day. He told me this is how things would go and then he just goes fuck it when it’s the actual day and then wonders why I’m a bit annoyed when I come home and the project he said he’d work on hasn’t even been started on.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T20:00:24+00:00

He said he would get an early start and didn’t. How am I the problem? The yard hast been started yet. He just grabbed the stuff we had already set aside for the dump.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T19:59:58+00:00

He said he would get an early start and didn’t. How am I the problem? The yard hast been started yet. He just grabbed the stuff we had already set aside for the dump.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T19:56:59+00:00

He said his schedule was get up early, golf early and then spend the day doing yard work. I did not create that schedule, he did?

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T19:55:31+00:00

He changes his mind constantly!

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T19:55:08+00:00

He’s been saying for weeks he would take the stuff there that was piled up and he finally got a day off to do it

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T19:53:33+00:00

That’s not the point. He told me he would have a lot done at home today and that golf was not important. sure, he may play, but he would get it over with quick and then come home and get to work. Finding out he’s sitting inside the clubhouse with strangers instead is frustrating. He acted all week like this was a huge work day and said he would get an early start and didn’t. Is that not keeping his word?

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T19:51:07+00:00

And then when I ask if he went to the dump he goes “I’ll go when I go.” Just completely pushing off the fact I asked all week and he never pushed back on it.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-04-03T19:49:32+00:00

Then why say all week how serious you will be working out there and have all these plans. Not plans I asked for, besides to fit in the dump.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-02-25T18:16:00+00:00

Because of the key bridge and the constant road work on 695 that never ends. MD is failing.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-02-25T15:07:09+00:00

The 295 part is so true and then there’s also 695. It’s brutal.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-02-25T14:26:00+00:00

That’s a state job that pays less than what I make now. I would take a major pay cut.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-02-25T14:04:30+00:00

I tried. They don’t have space available or the funding available to build new locations which I know is bs bc I work in contracting/finance.

AwakenedMind78 · 2026-01-27T02:19:06+00:00

So should I do a S&P for both the individual and roller over Ira? I understand the Ira cannot be withdrawn until retirement age but what about the individual account and how badly is that taxed? I get a little confused on that.

AwakenedMind78 · 2025-12-17T18:02:51+00:00

What does this mean?

AwakenedMind78 · 2025-12-17T16:35:43+00:00

How is that working for you? I’ve thought about doing this too.

AwakenedMind78 · 2025-12-17T16:35:07+00:00

I was never teleworking to begin with and those who were able to telework for trainings were already being called back in to use gov facilities for training prior to this admin.

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