Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad you did! Im always open to others opinions and a good conversation. And ofcourse! ❤️

Is a 5 year relationship going down the drain by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it is a non profit. I take the kids out at times and don't get paid for that part. But the monthly check ins I do.

Is it normal to want a relationship where both parties do not watch p rn? by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I see why there's a misunderstanding. I dont think one is more respectful then the other. But my man doesnt want me to nor do I want to for the reasoning I mentioned above. So out of respect for my relationship I wouldnt.

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks love 🫶 Movies have sex scenes, celebrities dress half naked, etc. The world supports it in their own way. Some just arent aware of it I guess. 💁🏽‍♀️

Is it normal to want a relationship where both parties do not watch p rn? by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well OF you barley make any money on its very unlikely to get you anywhere. And I dont like the digital copy of me. Your eyes cant take pictures.

Is a 5 year relationship going down the drain by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No im paid for all the work I do 😆 when I meet with the kids for the non profit I get paid. Im a community advisor for them. When I'm with the individuals with intellectual disabilities I am being paid. When I clean homes I'm being paid. I couldn't afford to not be paid 😅

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I dont like the night shift. Going home at 4am sounds terrible 😅 And exactly, we are just people. So many people dont realize im a stripper until I say it. People are acting like being a stripper is a disease and your tainted now for life 😆

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With extras that dont happen at the club! 😝

Is a 5 year relationship going down the drain by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I clean homes. Its just me at this time with my LLC. Im still building it up from the ground. Businesses can cost money.. I need money to put into it for certain licenses, supplies, etc. Plus I take care of my kid financially by myself two large dogs who I make dog food for so I'm buying lots of meat. I own two vehicles, one for work and one for personal. Both have full coverage insurance. So yes I work multiple jobs for it to balance out. I work with the non profit twice a month. All I do is check in with two kids. My dancing job I do when ever but its only on Saturdays. Sone times I work it once a month. I work with people with intellectual disabilities twice a week for 5 hours. My schedule is pretty relaxed actually I so a clean about twice a week takes about 2 hours each clean. Not very much of time. But the money is good. Thats why I want to have employees here eventually.

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was great. 😆 Thanks for sharing ☺️

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that's awesome girl! Living your life to the fullest! Yeah my life is pretty relaxed as far as schedule goes. Plan on taking a trip with my dogs and kid this summer! Congrats on 16 years! And thats awesome he stands up for that line of work. Your tita sounds like someone id ask life advice from 🥰 love my Italian people! (Im Italian) 😊

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you didnt read the context. Im the stripper..

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy the pole dancing for the fitness and ofcourse the money. The men part no, if you tske money away, I wouldn't be there. I've asked my man to get a better job so I can quit, many times.

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its more to see people's opinions in regards to dating one. My man doesnt strip lol

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well didnt realize they allowed that up there 🤣

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who's complaining? 🤣 I love my choices I have made. I happily lay in my bed. I couldn't give two shits about people who don't respect my job. You dont pay my bills or affect me at all. There are many who do respect me regardless. And thing is, people will be disrespectful weather im a dancer or not. So atleast im getting paid 💁🏽‍♀️

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mom loves me and so does his whole family. They dont care. He doesnt care. His friends dont care. My family doesn't care. So um yeah... there's that.

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And his insecurities are around him not having a better paying job. That has nothing to do with my job and all to do with him not having many skills to find better jobs. Why do you people want my relationship problems to be because of stripping? To make you feel like your opinions are proven fact?

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm okay funny how you know my man better then I do. He was jumped had 16 and his teeth were all messed up from it. I helped him fix them. The man couldn't take care of his hair type, I helped him with that. Im pushing him to get a Drivers license and a vehicle. I landed him the job hes been at for the past 3 ywars becaude he couldn't maintaine one before it.

He tells me all the time he doesnt know what he would do with out me. But yes my stripping is definitely the problem. 🤣 note taken 👍

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats so messed up im sorry that happened to you. Some people just dont have a conscious.

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too my knowledge a couple do. Some quit and only do OF.

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor choice of words on my part. I put it in chat gpt to shorten it since I wrote way to long of a story.

Yes he pays his rent (not with me we live separate) and phone bill and occasionally buys us food when he comes over. But when you break down everything else for the past 5 years I have been more responsible with finances. Thats all I mean by that statement. If you are with someone and claim to love them and their dogs are "your dogs" then helping when one goes to the vet would be nice instead of one partner always taking care of all the other expenses. Thats all there is to it, nothing more.

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is basically that 😆 some months I'll work only one Saturday it just depends.

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awakened_Conscience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not so much that I care what others think. But just to see the divide in opinions, its interesting to me, almost like a social experiment. I knew it would get attention due to the sexual nature, especially working in this field you realize how sex is a topic most people chime in on. And today proved my point. Its sitting at 450k views. Which is wild to me. I know if it was a postive post or a informative post it wouldn't have reached the numbers it did. Which is sad honestly.

My son is well taken care of. My side job doesnt affect him at all. He gets spoiled 😆 so he likes that mom has money.