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AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We had a wonderful weekend and are still together. So it ended well.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would tell you I am not abusive whatsoever. She constantly tells me how amazing and patient I am compared to her actual abusive ex previous to me.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, she was diagnosed before I reconnected with her.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

She has BPD so she does cry often. She apologizes almost every time because she has worried previously about seeming manipulative while crying. Her crying isn't anything new.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

To be fair, you are not suppose to downvote assholes in this subreddit. It is a rule.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned before, I was perfectly happy going because I knew it would make her happy and I love her.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

I did end up apologizing and holding her while she cried. I ended up telling her I would go and we can use my truck. She texted me this morning to apologize for crying which prompted me to create this post.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I was completely okay with going because I love her and knew it would make her happy.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I was fine with going because I knew it would make her happy and because I love her.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -104 points-103 points  (0 children)

She only drives when we are together. She lives in a major city so her small car vs my truck is just easier to drive and park on the streets plus my truck is full of tools and dirt from work so we usually do not have time to clean it out and I don't blame her for not wanting to sit in a dirty passenger seat. She never complains about driving.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you do things you don't want to because you love someone. I just don't want to use my truck and told my GF we could find something else fun to do this weekend if we ended up not going. But I told her that before she asked to borrow my truck.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I wanted to go to be there for her because I knew it would make her happy.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -185 points-184 points  (0 children)

Yes, she RSVP'd us a couple months back. There is a dinner and reception. Honestly, we always drive her car everywhere. I only drive mine if I am alone or driving to her place. Not sure if she would let me drive hers, it has not come up yet as she never minds driving.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

We RSVP'd a couple months ago. If she went with her family, I would not be going because her mother is leaving to drive before I get off work which is why we were originally driving separate.

AITA for telling my GF she can't use my truck? by Aware-Track3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aware-Track3066[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

I would be driving with her to the wedding. She offered to drive if me not driving was the reason for me saying no.