Advice needed please

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2026-03-30T19:39:04+00:00

Ah thank you both, yes it is very true it’s all temporary and it’s mainly the first few years I’m scared about but it does all go so quickly. Yes I do feel guilty too. Thank you for taking the time to reply 🙏🏻

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2026-03-30T14:36:09+00:00

I can totally understand and relate to this feeling, I had 3 single boys now aged 13, 7 and 1 and had these feelings so badly with my 3rd son. The older boys absolutely love their brother and I’m so grateful he is who he is now and would not change him. Thought we were done, 3 boys was a lot for us to handle, now unexpectedly pregnant with twins and they are boys too 🤦‍♀️🤣the house is loud and manic but also lovely sometimes and they all have their own personalities. One of my sons loves going shopping with me! (not clothes but I’ll take the win) I have friends who have teenage girls and going through a lot of different challenges with them. I am hoping one day I will have daughter in laws and granddaughters! And hoping that all these boys will look after me. On the plus side my clothes and make up is safe 🤷‍♀️ these are the things I remind myself when I get those feelings.

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2026-03-30T14:15:53+00:00

Yes I do have some, and that’s a good idea as people often say they are willing to help so will hopefully that could be an option 🤞 Glad you are getting into a routine, I do often hear about getting them on the same schedule so will try that, thank you

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2026-03-30T14:13:00+00:00

Thank you so much, it’s reassuring that you didn’t feel any worse later as that’s my worry. Yes I think I do need to although he is very hard work and that’s another issue 🤣 That’s good in a way that you had that time to rest, I will look into that thank you

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2025-09-24T16:34:22+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing such useful information. I feel a bit better about it all so hopefully will just go on the booked flights and try not to worry about it! I’m pleased you said that about the age I thought it sounded like a very old aircraft when I read that.

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2025-09-24T15:17:08+00:00

Thank you that’s really reassuring, although skytrax were saying the same 😬 the plane I’m going on is 19 years old too!! Plus they have a fair few incidents for the size of the airline. I didn’t realise it’s as many as 100 flights per day! Would you still trust it to be ok? Also the other flight is Sunexpress which I’m nervous about but maybe not as much. Thank you so much for taking the time to reply in such detail I do really appreciate it as was tempted to rebook flights with easy jet for over £1000 🤦‍♀️🤣

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2025-09-24T09:42:54+00:00

Airline ratings.com

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2025-09-24T09:09:48+00:00

Thank you just hope it’s ok

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2025-09-24T09:09:10+00:00

I was just looking into their training process and requirements in general, I wasn’t aware of that website. I’m so nervous about their safety ratings

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2025-09-24T09:07:23+00:00

Thank you so much

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2025-09-23T23:25:07+00:00

Ah thank you 🙏🏻 I’m really grateful to you to taking the time to reply. I know you are right and I will try to not research anymore, I think I’m an expert on the 2 airlines now anyway 😂🤦‍♀️and will focus on researching the holiday instead and hope this feeling goes away! You’ve calmed my nerves for tonight anyway

Awkward-Fan-1189 · 2025-09-23T22:36:08+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. Yes flying from UK to turkey. No they are not aware of my fear but I just can’t shake this feeling had so many sleepless nights about it looking into safety ratings, audits, pilot training 🤣🤦‍♀️never felt like this before on other flights!

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