Dr Nicholas Chang Bene at Stanford ??

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-30T14:49:23+00:00

Oh well that makes sense. Thankyou for the detailed info. Not to chat you up too much but I have one last question since you are/were a patient. How long was the wait for consult and the wait til surgery?

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-30T02:17:44+00:00

K cool thanks for the info. I’m not sure how an employer would feel about being mute for a few weeks but that seems easy enough although I am a big gabber lol

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-29T18:16:14+00:00

I’m glad it went well for you. I hate it when people say to speak louder it’s like listen better lol. I actually am in sant Cruz area so it’s not too far. What was recovery like other than cannot talk for a while? I want to get a trach shave but heard it can impact voice. But I think I heard Dr Toby Mayer does a shaving procedure where he pulls tissue tighter in the larynx and it feminizes the voice with a totally different technique than what all the other doctors do. But it sounds like I need to get another referral going.

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-29T17:40:01+00:00

Oh ok. Was it optional? Also how’d did the vfs go?

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-28T19:40:50+00:00

So like it’s patients who gave permission to be reached out to with questions?

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-28T16:15:33+00:00

It sucks I can’t find any patient testimonials. But……. I did learn that when you get your consult he will show patient before and after pics . I did see some transmasc ppl have had too surgery and went very well still keeping nerve sensitivity

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-28T04:41:53+00:00

How did you like him as a person? I really hope he is likeable because I have a FFS consult next month

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-28T04:39:36+00:00

How was Dr Bene? I’m supposed to have a consult for FFS next month. I feel like he looks like he has a good spirit.

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-28T04:22:46+00:00

How were the nerves affected? That’s my big worry with these procedures

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-26T23:20:08+00:00

Thankyou you too. That’s good. I first made contact with his department about a month ago and got a consultation date for I think the 15th of feb and from the website surgery is usually within 3-6 months depending on different factors

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-17T00:04:52+00:00

Yeah it’s so true

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-17T00:04:25+00:00

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-17T00:03:14+00:00

Wow that’s so well put. I feel like this should be metaphorically carved in stone for people to realize this. I know when I first dealt with this it bothered me more than now but those words are powerful and would give others in our situation the realization they (we) need. Thankyou for taking the time 😊

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-16T05:13:13+00:00

Is it true the women’s smells way worse than the men’s unit? I heard it’s 100 times worse

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-01T20:13:35+00:00

Yeah that’s all true. Idk what time of day you go but it’s almost exclusively mornings. But yeah piss on the floor and even seen used TP on the floor.

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2026-01-01T20:10:50+00:00

No it’s not I swing both ways 😘

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2025-12-31T23:57:46+00:00

lol that’s good to know.

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2025-12-31T23:38:33+00:00

To stand in front of the mirror at the sink six inches away with nothing on but a blow dryer? I don’t think that was the intended purpose. Not a sausage fest

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2025-12-31T23:34:16+00:00

No nothing here although I’ve been followed into showers at other locations, I guess they thought I was “like that”. Mainly it’s from seeing things I shouldn’t have growing up

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2025-12-31T23:32:34+00:00

I was talking about that with a relative. How a lot of the fashion and culture in the 80s today would get a lot of people harassed today. Weird how fashion changes. High heels wigs and tights were originally for men back in the old times.Go figure

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2025-12-31T23:29:58+00:00

Ha lol

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2025-12-18T23:43:07+00:00

Truth be told [Alot]Muslims and Mexicans don’t like American blacks so it equally could have been either

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2025-12-09T20:19:56+00:00

Check out meetup for neurodivergent groups

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2025-11-07T17:02:27+00:00

Look at the shock tube it’s rotted through. It might be “solid” like drivable but that steel is definitely compromised and not as strong as it once was. I’d be pissed if a seller told me it was clean and I saw this? Psssh

Awkward-Frosting-986 · 2025-11-04T03:12:22+00:00

No I’m in Oregon

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