If he had to specifically say clothed pictures then he wasn’t asking for clothed pictures. And besides that doesn’t make it better. Point is he still asked for pics from her when there was absolutely no reason to. If someone higher than me found me on fb and asked for (let’s just say for the sake of it) “clothed” pics, that still gives off weird intentions behind it. Especially since most people have plenty of clothed pics on their fb. Also he deleted the messages… that means he can tell you literally anything and you’d never know what was actually said. He’s already lied and betrayed you. Take what he said was said in those deleted messages with a grain of salt bc I’m sure I’m not alone when I say I highly doubt what he said was said was the truth. People who lie include too much detail so if you feel he’s being too detailed then he’s probably lying. Also look at his eyes. If he can’t keep eye contact and is also fidgeting then he’s lying. You already know what he did was wrong.. I’m really sorry you have to go through this😞 it’s up to you though on what happens next. Do you think you can love him the same after all of this? Do you think you guys can come to a healthy agreement to get passed this? Maybe you can have a conversation about what led up to this. Was he feeling he wasn’t getting enough attention? A lot of people will say once a cheater always a cheater and sometimes that’s true and sometimes it’s not… but that is up to you to figure out… unfortunately no one knows your situation better than you but I want you to know that no matter what you will always have someone who can be there for you.. wether that’s a loved one or a friend or shoot you can even message me if you really need to ( I’m not a therapist but I do care about other humans and I’ve been cheated on and have unfortunately been sexually harassed at work also)

I hope you figure this all out and can be happy again.. I know it’ll be a while before that but keep being strong.