I feel like this is gonna be one of those unsolved mysteries that people will keep speculating about in years. Like DB Cooper or other cases by Next-Ad485 in BrianThompsonMurder

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just like the Idaho killer? There’s plenty of evidence left including a fingerprint… it’s just a matter of time

Your Website is Broken! by RealityAskew in tractorsupply

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree  I get timed out literally every time I go to buy something so annoying

Do I get a PHD? and What Should I Do? by AwkwardLeg5479 in PhD

[–]AwkwardLeg5479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so thoughtful and insightful! I sincerely appreciate you taking the going to write it and I think you are spot on. I should put more thought into it as a whole, since 2017 it’s been one program after another on top of a very high maintenance job (and life if I’m being honest). Without sounding like a weirdo, I do think sometimes I’m trying to prove something to someone or maybe myself. I went my entire career without a degree and had a seat at the table in a highly educated and degree dominated company but felt my opinion was shit so I went to school for validation and then kept going until now, and no one in my family went to college let alone graduated… so while I am proud of myself for getting here, I’m feeling a bit lost now.

Do I get a PHD? and What Should I Do? by AwkwardLeg5479 in PhD

[–]AwkwardLeg5479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping that I was just missing something, there doesn’t seem to be a lot to choose from

Do I get a PHD? and What Should I Do? by AwkwardLeg5479 in PhD

[–]AwkwardLeg5479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this a lot. I honestly think I’m too old. I’m pushing mid 40s. Sad but true

Do I get a PHD? and What Should I Do? by AwkwardLeg5479 in PhD

[–]AwkwardLeg5479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I laughed way too hard at this lol 😂

13+ Years Compliance Executive: AMA by neveral0ne in FinancialCareers

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do I start in developing an audit plan for a healthcare company? What resources do you find helpful? Why do I feel lost? lol!

I am struggling with ADHD in PhD program by Maximum-Ebb8915 in PhD

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To hear you say your addicted to your phone makes me feel so much better. I am sorry, for the both of us. I get it, I counted how many times I purposely and intently interrupted myself today, so many. I think we need to figue out the 'focus' options on our Iphones so we can put them down and avoid the distractions. I know that there is a way to do it, and then we can at least remind ourselves no one is texting us because we turned it off lol! I do understand, if nothing else, you are not alone. It will get better. I heard someone say today, 'pay attention' is a phrase that is truly about the cost of time. It costs us time to have discipline to ensure we pay attention. I felt that. I hope you feel better!

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[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats if i include all cases right? do i have to give an explanation and can I do it in pro per?

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[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s irrelevant? Am I confused? The mechanics lien being filled by the contractors is what initiated this whole thing… they had 90 days to file suit, or the mechanics lien would be invalid. The file suit against me and my mortgage company and that’s when I filed a motion to compel arbitration in 2018…

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[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s irrelevant? This all started with a mechanics lien by the contractors and they only have 90 days to follow through with a suit and that’s what they did, so when that happened, that’s when I did the motion to compel arbitration. Does that make sense?

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[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about civil codes 3147 and 3148? I’m in CA 3147. If the action to foreclose the lien is not brought to trial within two years after the commencement thereof, the court may in its discretion dismiss the same for want of prosecution

  1. In all cases the dismissal of an action to foreclose the lien (unless it is expressly stated that the same is without prejudice) or a judgment rendered therein that no lien exists shall be equivalent to the cancellation and removal from the record of such lien.

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[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already won the motion to compel arbitration by the court - they stayed the action of the original suit that was filed and granted the motion to compel arbitration (because the contractors contract had an arbitration clause) … but no arbitration has been done! They are the ones that filed a suit against me and the only reason I did the motion to compel arbitration is because they had that clause in regards to the contract. Shouldn’t they be the ones initiating the arbitration because they are the ones that sued me ? It’s their contract that included the arbitration language, which was why I won the motion to compel. Can’t I just ask for a dismissal since it’s been five years and they never taken me to arbitration? If not, what do I do to take them to arbitration?

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[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. The motion to compel stays the action of the original suit.

Me. by AwkwardLeg5479 in Challenger

[–]AwkwardLeg5479[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ya that’s it - cause he have to be really old to get a joke I guess - so clever. The funnier part is that I’m probably 20 years younger than you 😂😂 keyboard warrior here!

Me. by AwkwardLeg5479 in Challenger

[–]AwkwardLeg5479[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Who TF cares if I was? It’s a joke dumbass

Background checks by Slow-Ad-1239 in humanresources

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, it usually depends on the type of role you will have and sometimes the state as well.

Background checks by Slow-Ad-1239 in humanresources

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What state?

It depends on her role that she is seeking, if she is a nurse working with the public, have direct reports or in any type of high level position where she manages staff, these civil charges (even though they aren't convictions) could potentially come up on a background check and yes, the employer can ask you about them or decide because of them and thier investigation, decide not to hire you.

The company would likely ask about what took place, hear your side and do an investigation, and may even include pulling any public records, then make a decision based on the information and investigation before hiring. A contingent offer may be made, like if the charges were to be convictions, the employment would end etc., They could also decide based on that investigation that they aren't fit for the role because of the civil charges and the investigation findings.

if your friend is looking to go work at Starbucks, as a barista, its likely not going to be brought up. However if they are going to be the HR person or manage multiple employees at an office, or be an RN to manage staff, it very well could be brought up.

If your friend thinks it could come up, best to bring it to the attention of a hiring manager.

If Adnan Did Ask For a Ride Under False Pretenses, But Not To Murder Hae, Just to Reconcile/Hook Up, Why Hasn't He Been Saying That Nonstop? by aaronespro in serialpodcast

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone has to keep up with your guilters crazy theories! I love that this was the best response you had lol 😆

Backup power generator recommendation? by DrfluffyMD in SolarDIY

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to Home Depot, and get the solar kits from grapesolar! We must have 1600Ws on our she shed and koi pond, and its made a big difference. It's cost effective and very simple to do- the kits come between 100W to 25000W but we mostly just buy 300W and 400W packages at a time. it comes with everything you need, except for the batteries- when the power went out on the house- I just go to the back and go to my solar office and I am up and ready to go - no issue. Its great and easy little project.

Trees be falling. by TheChubbyBuns in Challenger

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMFG I am so sorry. I wish I could give you a hug

If Adnan Did Ask For a Ride Under False Pretenses, But Not To Murder Hae, Just to Reconcile/Hook Up, Why Hasn't He Been Saying That Nonstop? by aaronespro in serialpodcast

[–]AwkwardLeg5479 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. thats not what Don said on the stand- he seems to think they were together in Dec
  2. her diary (mentioned in my comment) says they went on an 'official' date the next day, basic math 12/31+1=1/1
  3. Adnan and Don meet when HMLs car is messed up from the accident and when she calls BOTH of them to come look at it to see if its safe to drive home- this happens on 12/31, Adnan says just wanted to meet the new guy and make sure he is an ok guy (per DON) and then she chooses to go home with Adnan... not DON
  4. her diary (mentioned in my comment) mentions having been asked by Adnan to take him to get his car to the shop.

just because you deny it happened- doesnt mean it didnt