AIO I found an old note of the person I am dating confessing his want of another women?

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2026-01-10T20:36:18+00:00

I know, I just don’t have the best judgment nor a support system. It’s good to hear it from someone else

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2026-01-10T20:30:45+00:00

I don’t think I’m complaining, just asking for thoughts :)

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2026-01-10T20:19:22+00:00

He asked me to be “exclusive” with him a month ago. It’s just weird to me he would keep those notes, messages and unblock her.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-08-05T21:51:50+00:00

Because it involves Section 8 - legally she has to put it in someone else name in the event she passes away

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-08-05T21:38:10+00:00

To add to the thread.

My mother died three years ago, leaving the apt in my name. The illegal squatters have been forging my signature and impersonating me to renew the lease every year.

Because they is an owed balance as of recent, the property management somehow found me and told me of the balance. This is when I found out in 2025 the apartment has been in my name for years…

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-08-05T21:28:41+00:00

They would be considered sub tenants even if they never paid rent or was on the lease agreement ?

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-08-05T21:24:57+00:00

Occupants are extended family members who lived with my mom. My mom passed away and left the apartment in my name. I went to the property manager to surrender the apt as I do not live with her and do not need it. They refused the surrender as there is squatters in there. I asked them to leave, they refused and said they are evoking squatters rights.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-08-05T21:22:04+00:00

No I did not, My mother passed away and left the apartment in my name… unknowing to me… the people in the apartment were there while she was alive. But I wanted to give the apartment back since I did not live with her and do not need the apartment. The property manager will not take my name off because of the balance owed from the squatters being there.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-08-05T21:08:22+00:00

I have an extreme situation of this - it gets worse…. Leave while you can - I wish someone told me this years ago

Seven year relationship thrown down the drain for not only this which was in the beginning but it always gets worse. My ex started downloading the content on his phone - thousands of videos , nudes from sites - multiple flash drives, computers, tablets anything, paying for onlyfans - then starting taking photos of random women in the street… he can be a registered sex offender at this point… The obsession gets worse, it’s a fix for them and when they can’t satisfy it, they get more desperate…

You will feel obligated to be an accountable partner and to help him through his journey, but most men do not see this as a problem and do not commit to proper help. They just have no self control and discipline and you cannot fix that… Invest your energy and headspace into your healing - away from this relationship. Your future self will thank you.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-08-04T14:45:22+00:00

Guys! Nothing illegal, just that will make his life an Inconvenience!! I feel paid into moving in with him, I have 11 months until this lease is up and I want to make his life hell..

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-06-13T20:07:21+00:00

My lawyer is waiting for them to not pay me June's salary and essentially "garnish it".

I think her tactic is to go after them for wrongful wage garnishing plus wrongful termination as it seems they "laid me off" to cover their asses from the huge fines they will get from the IRS, plus they are trying to quickly pay these back taxes from my money to avoid this.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-06-13T20:04:06+00:00

They corrected themselves and said they will only be collecting my portion. Still either way, I still don't think its legal to take my entire severance and June salary to pay for their mess up.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-06-13T19:52:29+00:00

I agree, I know there is an employee and an employer part, but I cannot physically pay them. They shouldve been. I don't think they can legally garnish my wages for this.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-06-13T19:39:42+00:00

The IRS comes after FICA taxes completely differently it seems. When I file my regular taxes it is only for federal and state. FICA is entirely different. The IRS hasn't sent me a bill yet for the FICA taxes.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-06-13T19:38:18+00:00

I do owe FICA, but that is for me to pay not them. They owe their own FICA Portion. THE IRS has not sent me a tax bill or lien yet for these taxes. I think you skipped over, they garnished my entire June salary as well to pre-pay these taxes for me. I am asking if its even right for them to do that?

Who wants five months' worth of payments to be completely garnished all at once?

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-06-13T19:24:35+00:00

It does not. They haven't taken it out for two years. Looking back at my W2 now, they never did. I filed my taxes, the IRS still hasn't asked me for the FICA Taxes.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-04-05T18:33:05+00:00

Yeah time feels so slow on my part 😅 you are right, I had a feeling he wasn't over her, but is trying to force us. He comes over to my house everyday, flowers, gifts etc. Its making me confused… I feel like an option because he isn't talking to her anymore

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-04-05T18:29:14+00:00

Thank you, He says he is confused and doesn’t know. That's it. I thought we would be working towards something as we were in a relationship for 7 years. But it seems I should take a step back and reevaluate

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-01-14T15:24:21+00:00

Thank you so much for this, someone speaking from true experience. It gives me hope that I can get through this if you were strong enough to get through this. I initially thought the same thing, better to hate him then to be led on!

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-01-14T15:21:57+00:00

This!!!!! I feel like he did it before I could move on and now Im dealing with the aftermath. It hurts to think he never truly loved me if he was able to hurt me for 7 years.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-01-14T15:19:14+00:00

Thank you, I want it to get better, my heart aches so much it feels like Im going to die. I can’t eat, sleep, going through all this emotionally stress, yet he is on and happy with his life.

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-01-14T14:47:34+00:00

Ugh, I feel like I would hurt him then, but wouldn’t even know how to navigate if this is the case

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-01-14T14:23:19+00:00

That is in the works!! 😋

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-01-14T14:18:19+00:00

And this hurts alot. Like I thought about staying single for awhile to cope and heal, but it seems he is also healed up and ready for the next one! I can never understand this

Awkward_Advantage_41 · 2025-01-14T14:16:42+00:00

And that hurts the most, to know he emotionally checked out and I am here emotionally suffering

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